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Anal intercourse should NOT hurt -- if it does, you're doing something wrong. There's a good how-to book, Anal Pleasure and Health, by Jack Morin, that does an excellent job of explaining it all. Basic ideas: relax and go slowly.
There are lots of positions; it's up to the couple to find the one they enjoy the most. One warning: anal sex is a primary vector for spreading sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Play safe, and use a condom!
What else can I help you with?
Do gay men develop anal prolapse?
Rectal prolapse is uncommonly caused by sex.
If a man wants you to slap him on the butt is it an indication that he is gay?
This is hardly an indication that he is gay. Sex and sexual identity are similar but also different. Anal sex and anal play does not make someone gay, even though it is very common for gay men to engage in anal play.Men have a prostate gland that is easily stimulated through the anus. So many heterosexual men enjoy being anally stimulated in order to hit this prostate gland. (A finger aught to do it.) This does not mean he is gay, nor will it make him gay.Along the same lines, there are many gay men who do not enjoy being penetrated. This does not make them any less gay.How one prefers to have sex is not a clear indication of their sexual orientation. The best way to find that out is through communication.
Does it make you gay if a girls gives you anal?
Hmm, curious question. I'll assume it's serious. Do you mean "Will you become gay" or "Is it evidence that you are gay". The answer, either way, is emphatically "No". Your sexual preferences simply "are". Each of us finds what gets us off. If you try a sexual practice like anal sex, and enjoy it, then you can add it to your repertoire. If not, don't. None of them "make you" anything. Incidentally, there are plenty of gay men (i.e. men who are attracted exclusively to men) who aren't into anal sex. Just as there are straight men and women whose preferences vary from the "norm". Relax, explore, find what you enjoy and do more of it. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone.
How many gay men are hot?
All men, gay or straight, are hot in one way or another.
How do gay men like men?
You can meet gay men online, such as dating sites or social networking sites. You can also visit gay clubs and districts, or LGBT-friendly churches and synagogues.
Are men gay in there own way?
Yes i think they are.
Why do gay men and women feel the need to be gay?
Gay men and women don't "feel the need to be gay". We are gay. That's the way we are. You don't ask "Why do straight people feel the need to be straight?"
Are all men gay in a way?
Some researchers believe that all humans are inherently bisexual, so yes, you could say that "all men are gay in a way".
Real facts on why men become gay?
Here is the only real fact: men cannot become gay. They are born that way.
Why have I always been atracted to gay men?
You could be attracted to gay men because you like their attitude and the way that they treat others.
If two gay men want to have kids of their own what is the best way to do it and is it legal or socially acceptable?
It depends on the laws of where you are. In some places gay people can adopt kids. In some places gay men can hire a surrogate mother who will have the child and then hand it over when it is born. Sometimes this will be using the semen of the gay men. If it is legal, then it will probably be (or become) socially acceptable.
How do gay men let other men know they are gay?
The most predictable way of communicating that one is gay is to come out and be proud of being gay. Gay men also often meet each other through common interests and involvement in the gay community. Sometimes you can tell by the way someone acts or speaks that they are probably gay. The ability to pick up on these cues is called "gaydar."
