How can you stop your ex-husband from bullying you during communication that is supposed to be about your child?

Answer 1

forget him and find someone else special who listens to your problems

Thank-you. It took a bit of research into psychological phenomenon. Now that I have done so, it is much easier to understand him. There is nothing you can do to stop the bullying.

Out of the mouth of babes: "Just bless him and walk away."

A bully is always bound to strike harder before they will target someone else. In many cases, they will restrict or cut back child support if you withdrawal yourself as the target in other ways. This was predicted and he did so. Still, the state is adament that dead beat dads put their children first. They can and will quickly garnish wages while the custodial parent doesn't have to whisper a word to him. There is nothing he can do if you delete him from your life.

No one wants a bully in their lives. Stick to your decision and keep him out.

-- To handle an Ex bullying you and the Children is the hardest thing to go through. I know, because I have been in this situation with my Ex. We separated 11 years ago, and it's just gotten worst and worst, to the point that my two sons repeat their dads beliefs to to me. The dehumanization of me, their mother, is tough because I see how much the children are losing in themselves, their ambitions, goals, etc... They are too busy trying to appease their father's approval. They want to be loved and be like their mentor, I understand... but it's hard to watch (and not be able to do anything about it). In my desperate moments, I try and leave the worry and concern with God, because you have to deal someway. CAS and the Courts, I feel will hurt the children more, so I try and keep the hate out of me, by praying to God. (This has helped but it's the hardest thing I've ever deal with).

Answer 2

This is a matter that you probably need to take up with your attorney or a family court judge. Sometimes you may have to complain to social services. But it is important to try to stop this for the good of the child.

Answer 3

i dont know but when you find out let me know then maybie my ex husbands will stop it