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Assuming this question is being asked by a female, you attract lesbian women by showing kindness towards her and interest in what she's interested in. First, you don't attract a lesbian if you have a boyfriend or you're actually straight. Gross, don't do it. But if your motives are pure and you're either questioning your orientation or identify as lesbian/bi/queer then begin by looking at her and notice something about her that you are attracted to (her hair, eyes, the way she walks or talks, her shoes, whatever). Smile, look her in the eyes kindly, and compliment her. Ask her about herself in a friendly, relaxed manner. Tell her your name and ask for her's. Ask if she'd like to have coffee with you sometime. Or you can give her your number and leave it up to her to see if she likes you. Never pursue anyone if they make it clear that your advances are unwelcome. The best way to attract a lesbian is to try to be friends first, so just do whatever you would normally do when trying to make a friend.

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