Is it wrong to be transgender?

Answer 1

its an opinion, no it is not wrong to be transgendered but it definitely doesn't describe the average person. Most people's gender and sex match: the parts match the brain.

Wrong is a moral issue, not a factual one. Depending on your upbringing and the religion you ascribe to, it can be evil or it can be good. If you are looking for a discussion of the views of religion on it, check out "is it a sin" for more in-depth info.

Answer 2

No, it is not wrong to be attracted to anybody. However, the fact that you are specifically attracted to transgender girls (the whole group, rather than a specific girl) could imply that you have a fetish for them (there is a large porn community of non-op transgender women). While fetishes are fine to have, you have to be sure that you are respecting anybody you are involved with; if you ever get in a relationship with a transgender girl, you can't just treat her as a body, you have to treat her as a person.