The first step is making some gay friends (and not neccessarily the "sassy gay friend" we always see in the media)
You could try going to gay bars or clubs (if you're old enough), visiting your town/city's gay neighbourhood (if it has one), or joining a Gay-Straight Alliance (GSA) if you're still in highschool/university/college.
What? Is finding a date gay? Can you find a gay date? Can someone who is gay find a date? What are you asking?
Yes, that is pretty much what single gay males do; they date guys.
You ask him out first.
What? Is finding a date gay? Can you find a gay date? Can someone who is gay find a date? What are you asking?
No usher is not gay. He did not date a guy.
if you are not gay, just take the compliment. If you are gay, you might consider a date.
Gay individuals get jealous just as anyone else does.
They ask another gay guy that they like if they will go out with him! That question is as simple as heck
if he was closested
If you like, sure.
a gay club!
Unless you go to a gay club then it is difficult to know who is gay and who is straight. It can be dangerous to assume another man is gay. There are all sorts of clubs and other places to meet gay people; perhaps volunteer for 'gay rights.'