What if couples have been separated for 9 years?

Answer 1

No. Divorce is a court process so if you have not gone through the motions of filing papers, etc then you are separated, not divorced. Spouses who are legally separated are not free to marry since neither has been returned to the legal status of an unmarried person. The duration of time will have a bearing on community assets when you seek a divorce (i.e. the money and assets you have collected during the 9 years may not be considered separate) but you should file for divorce if that is what you are wanting.

Answer 2

If a couple has been separated for 9 years, they may need to evaluate if they still have common goals and interests to rebuild their relationship. It's important for them to communicate openly about their expectations, seek counseling if needed, and take time to reconnect and rebuild trust. Ultimately, both partners must be willing to put in effort and work towards a shared future together.