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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

8,665 Questions

Why is your lover always to busy to spend time with you?

There could be several reasons for your lover always being busy. It's possible that they have a demanding work schedule or other commitments that require their time and attention. It's important to communicate honestly with them about your feelings and needs, and find a mutually satisfying balance in the relationship.

How do you get even with a friend that hates you?

* Hate is a strong word and like all relationships even friendship has to be worked on. Depending on what your did you should try out your problems and not try to get even with them for hurting you. It takes a mature person to stand back after being hurt and try to rationalize why their friend hurt them and the only way you can find that out is by meeting your friend and talking it over. No human is 100% perfect.

Why does your ex girfriend text you when you tell them to go do one?

She is most likely texting you after THAT comment to either change the subject and talk about something that is really important to her, like your relationship. Or, she's confused about her feelings for you. Either way, she wants to talk to you because she still has feelings for you(good or bad, I don't know.).

Hope that answered your question. :)

What if your ex husband bought a car for you as a present now he wants to take it back - do you have any rights?

Whether you have rights to keep the car that your ex-husband bought for you as a present depends on various factors such as the legal ownership of the vehicle and any agreements or contracts made at the time of purchase or gifting. It is advisable to consult with a lawyer who can review the specific details of your situation and provide you with accurate legal advice.

If your ex-boyfriend of 4 years broke up with you and is already dating within 1 week can he be over me?

It's possible that he could be over you, but it's also possible that he's using this new relationship as a rebound. Everyone processes breakups differently, so it's difficult to say for sure. Ultimately, the best thing you can do is focus on healing and moving forward yourself.

When a women leaves you for another man do they just forget you and hate you?

That Other Man!Is he better looking? Does he have a greater income? Is he a charmer?

Did it ever occur to you that life is a competitive place? That everybody is looking for something better? A better house, a better car, a better partner? That expectations are high and disappointments great.

I hate to bring you to reality. For reality is cruel. In reality most will dump a partner for what they think is something better. That's the game. But if you're lucky, you'll find someone, who will be happy to be with you, with all your flaws - and I like everyone else share many of these flaws - and they'll be good to you.

Forget her! She's not worth your time. Read more about relationships by clicking "kpopp" (blue) below and check out the website and books listed.

What alot of people don't understand is,people always think the "Grass is Greener" on the other side. In reality they really don't know one another,you put your best face forward when you meet someone, "New". The other man or woman seem to be what you think you want,until you have gotten to know them a little better. Then all hell break loose,then you think what the hell have I gotten myself into? Reality sets in,you say to yourself, I had a good thing and I left it for this? I believe in "Karma",what comes around,goes around. Don't even worry about the other man or woman because "Darkness" has to give way to "Light". What ever you put out in this "Universe" it will come back to you,don't know exactly when,but it will. Please under no circumstance take them back....let them keep seeking,they had a good thing and they blew it....it's their loss and your "Gain". "Live Life To the Fullest"! "Time Heals All Wounds"!

A broken hand works but not a broken heart?

Very true. Just like a broken hand, the broken heart takes time to heal too. How long? Depends on how long and how genuinely you were in love. The more comitted to the relationship then the longer the healing process. Be aware that just like the body the heart will always repair itself over time - So long as you chose to learn from the experience and not let it overwhelm you.

A hologram is a vivid image?

A hologram is a three-dimensional image formed by the interference of light waves. It is created using laser technology and can be seen without the need for special glasses. Holograms are known for their vividness and realistic appearance, making them a popular tool for visual display and entertainment purposes.

What does it mean if you are in a committed relationship but you miss your ex girlfriend?

If you're in a committed relationship but still miss your ex-girlfriend, it could mean that there are lingering feelings or unresolved emotions towards your past relationship. It might be important to determine the root cause of these feelings and communicate openly with your current partner to address any concerns or doubts you may have.

When not married couple splits up who gets to keep what?

Check out "Parental Rights"in your state. In my state I went through a divorce, however some people I know that were not married went through a court proceeding and custody, child support, etc. are determined similar to a divorce. In some cases both parents are required by the court to attend parental classes geared towards couples that have children and are no longer in a romantic relationship.

If it is just about stuff and no children, you should look up any "common law marraige" statutes you may have in your states. Sometimes if a couple has been together for a certain amount of time they are treated as a married couple when they split up.

Hope it works out for the best.

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If you are not in what is considered to be a common law marriage each of you keeps whatever you went into the relationship with. If you bought things together while in the relationship such as furniture, appliances, etc., you have to try and work it out between you. If you can't there is always small claims court.

What does it mean if anything when your ex girlfriend gets engaged the same day as your birthday?

Don't take it personally. It likely means nothing. She moved on & is just at a different point in her life. Assuming she was proposed to, she probably had no idea she was going to be asked on what happened to be your birthday.

I've been having dreams about a boy i used to go out with and love but I'm seeing someone else now and happy with that so why do i keep having dreams about us kissing and when we used to go out?

Well if you loved him at one point then you might have let him go in a way you weren't comfortable with and didn't really let him go. But if your happy with the guy you are with now it could just your letting your mind wander to much and it go's to those memories. Another reason is you might not like the guy you are with now like the other one in which case you should talk to the other about getting back toghether.

Ex woke up one morning decided she didnt want to spend the rest of her life with me after 2 years of great relationship its now 2 months of no contact since then I miss her tons would calling be bad?

Unfortunately what you may have seen as a "great" relationship is not the way she had seen it as deciding to leave wasn't overnight, she likely was thinking about it for sometime. If it has been two months now and no contact that would indicate she has no intention of talking with you and it may be in your best interest to let things be, let go and move on as she has. I realize it may not be what you want to hear and I realize your at a loss but you have to get by this and allow yourself to move on.

How do you know when boys are telling the truth?

There isn't a foolproof way to determine if someone is telling the truth, regardless of their gender. However, you can pay attention to nonverbal cues, inconsistencies in their stories, and their overall trustworthiness. Building open and honest communication can also help foster an environment where people feel comfortable telling the truth.

What do i do to get my ex fiance back?

If you have been together for practically forever, you have a very, very, very, slight chance of getting him/her back.
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Girls

1. If it's a guy:

*Try forgiving yourself, and then apologizing, then, prove your apology by showing that you still love him as much as you did before, if his love hasn't worn off, he might come back to you, but if it has, then I'm sorry, but you're never, ever having another chance at that guy, it's time to move on. (P.S. it is never a good idea to think of killing yourself, think of another guy you like, or go to your parents and/or family for advice, they always have good advice, accept it.)
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Guys

2. If it's a girl:

*If she has fallen for another guy, then it's over, move on.

*If she hasn't fallen for another guy, then you need to prove yourself worthy of her love, she has probably gone to her parents so avoid them at all cost, until you love her enough again that you're willing to take a beating, so you need to get to know the real person inside of her, if you don't like that person, run like heck man! If you do, then love that person forever and never let them go, as I said above go to your parents and/or family members for advice, they always hve good advice, especially if they are, or have been married.

I have no more info to give you.

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Do jayz have a son?

Before Beyonce, there was Trinidadian model Shenelle Scott. Turns out she and Jay Z had a baby together and the rapper has been able to keep him out of the news for the last 7 years.

Does it mean he'll be back and he does love me if he looks back at me when leaving after saying goodbye in a breakup. He walked down the path and looked back and stared at me for a few seconds?

he wants to leave you All that means it he knows iot's the right thing to leave you but he obviously still has feelings for you and is finding it very difficult to walk away.i was in exactly the same suituation.move on huni xx

You and your bf broke up bc he wanted to be sexual and you wouldn't go there but then right after we broke up he called me and tried to change my mind when i wouldint he said well then 4get it what do?

It seems like your ex-boyfriend was trying to manipulate you into changing your boundaries when it comes to sexual activity. It's important to stick to your decision and not let anyone pressure or coerce you into something you're not comfortable with. If he's not willing to respect your boundaries, it's best to move on and find someone who will.

My ex told me he is deleting my number but I just got a text from him asking me for sex why?

Because he wanted you to love him and he want you to love him.

if you want to do it use safe sex or tell him you are not ready. if

he say no just move on with your life. well if he say yes that will

be your destiny.

My hubby I are planning to have baby Do you know the best positions of love making to make it happens?

Man on top is the best position for baby making. Be sure that after you make love, you prop your butt up with a pillow and stay in that position for at least 20 minutes. If you make love at night, try to stay in that position all night if you can. Be sure your'e using ovulator predictor kits (OPKs) so you know exactly when you're ovulating and, above all, HAVE FUN!

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really, the above is an old wives' tale. There is no 'Best Position' (the sperm reach the egg under their own power, so how they are deposited is inconsequential). The most important thing is to relax, enjoy yourself, and don't stress yourself out from trying. Fertility is influenced by body chemistry and body chemistry is influenced by emotions, so be positive and confident, and everything will work out well. :-)

How long does it take to get over heartbreak?

It depends how much u think about it. I THINK IT DEPENDS ON HOW DEEP THAT SIGNIFIGANT OTHER HAS LODGED INTO YOUR LIFE. IF YOU'VE TOLD YOUR DEEPEST SECRETS WITH THEM OR YOU WERE ABLE TO BE YOURSLEF AROUND THEM WITHOUT FEAR OF JUDGEMENT OR YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO SAY ANY WORDS AT ALL TO KNOW EACH OTHER WAS SAD OR NOT FEELING WELL DESPITE WHAT THEY SAY, THEN IT'LL TAKE A WHILE TO GET OVER IT. TIME WONT BE ABLE TO ERASE THE SCARS LEFT BEHIND, BUT IT CANHEAL THEM SLOWLY BUT SURELY.

Why is looking through a telescope like looking back in time?

because when you look into space, the planets are hundreds of thousands of light years away. so, what you are seeing, depending on how many light years away, is seconds, minutes, hours, days, months, even years old. for example, if the sun were to burn out today, it would take another billion years for the earth to receive no more light. hope this helps?

What if a guy doesnt know how to show or express love to you although you think he does and you interpret it as if he is ignoring you or not making an effort?

You are 'in love with love' and ignoring the red flags that are fluttering in you face. Love isn't about ignoring the one you love or not making an effort to improve the relationship. All relationships need work and it's a learning process. After all, there are two totally different personalities either dating, living together or married so life can have it's ups and downs, but mature people can communicate and work through their problems.

This guy sounds like a controller or is moody and has no respect for himself thus, he has no respect for other (including you.) Kick this guy to the curb and move on! There are a lot of nice guys out there. If you 'lay down with dogs, you get up with fleas.' If you don't have respect for yourself then don't expect it from those around you.

Should you stay with your boyfriend if he says one thing but does another?

It ultimately depends on the specific situation and the reasons why he says one thing but does another. If it is a recurring pattern and he consistently breaks his promises or lies, it may be a red flag indicating a lack of trustworthiness. Communication and honesty are vital in any relationship, so it is important to evaluate whether this behavior aligns with your values and if you can build a healthy and trusting partnership.

What does it mean my boyfriend broke up with me just because you said you have doubt about him and wanted him to reassure me?

Then you deserve better, he doesn't care about your feelings. How do I know this? I was in the same situation a few weeks ago I had doubt that he still liked me and he reassured me and said "why on this tiny world would I break up with you?"

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