The best way to approach it is to confront your partner. Look into the following - Do they seem distracted? Has their behavior changed? Is there some outside stress that is maybe bothering them? Do you suspect an an affair? - and be straightforward in asking.

Finally, just be honest with yourself. A troubled marriage usually is felt by both partners. Can you honestly say you've been completely happy? The answer is probably right in front of you.

More input from FAQ Farmers:

DO YOU YELL AT HIM THE MINUTE HE WALKS THROUGH THE DOOR? ARE YOU ON THE INTERNET ALL NIGHT? IS HE?WOULD HE RATHER BE ANYWHERE ELSE THAN WITH YOU AT HOME?

Some know in their gut or suspect it, and then some had NO CLUE that they were about to get a divorce because the other party had his or her own thing going on.

Some signs: New clothes or new style of clothing. Usually if someone is cheating or thinking about it, they will start taking better care of their body. Do an Internet search on how to check the history files and cookies of your computer and operating system as well. Has their taste in music suddenly changed? Do they have a cell phone that is a minute phone? Is there a key for a post office box you didn't know that other person had? Is that person seemingly spending more time with "meetings" and friends then in the past? These do not always mean something is up, but it does mean to be on your toes.

Decline in sexual attraction - very noticeable when pattern of sexual intimacy has changed. Your spouse no longer turns to you for pleasure.

Time one on one diminishes. You no longer spend time together alone.

When was the last time your spouse told you they loved you? If its been some time that would indicate perhaps there is a problem you are not aware of.

Sleeping in another room.

Q: I know my marriage is in trouble because he cant stand me for more than five minutes. I feel like things have changed because we have been married for 15 years (too long)he wants his freedom which is stay as far away from me as he can. I wish I knew the reason behind it so far I haven't found anything in his pocket or on his phone but I could use some advice.

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Series one: The 39 Clues

• 1 The Maze of Bones
• 2 One False Note
• 3 The Sword Thief
• 4 Beyond the Grave
• 5 The Black Circle
• 6 In Too Deep
• 7 The Viper's Nest
• 8 The Emperor's Code
• 9 Storm Warning
• 10 Into the Gauntlet
• 11 Vespers Rising

Series two: Cahills vs. Vespers

• 1 The Medusa Plot
• 2 A King's Ransom
• 3 The Dead of Night
• 4 Shatterproof
• 5 Trust No One
• 6 Day of Doom

Series three: Unstoppable

• 1 Nowhere to Run (October 2013)
• 2 Breakaway (January 2014)

Agent: Agent Cards are any cards that show or describe a person in the 39 Clues Universe. These are normally present-day characters.

Founder: Founder Cards are any cards that show or describe a historic person that is perceived as a Cahill. Most are from the past, and are dead.

Location: Location Cards are any cards that show or describe either a Clue location, historic site, etc. that is linked with the 39 Clues Universe.

Secret: Secret Cards almost always have some sort of code in them for you to crack, and will often have the "Top Secret" tab in the card discription.

Money: Money Cards are a kind of Bonus Card, and are only used in the 39 Clues game, Double Cross. They act in the form of you gaining the ability to take any card you want from your deck, even if it's covered up.

Replicator: Replicator Cards are a kind of Bonus Card, BUT they also have another job. In the 39 Clues game Double Cross, Replicator Cards give the player the chance to start or end a mission stack, used as a Wild Card. But if used off of the game Double Cross, Replicators have yet another function. They can be used to "Replicate" cards that you currently do not have and need/want! Although when you Replicate the cards, they will only appear virtually (unless you print them out), it's a fun and easy way to gain cards that you need for missing Card Combos for Clues. To Replicate a Super Common, Common, or Uncommon Card, you must have and use-up one Replicator Card. For Rare and Ultra-Rare Cards, you must use/have three Replicator Cards.

"Thomas Jefferson" CardsNumberNameFrontBackWhere To Get6Card 6: Thomas JeffersonThe Maze of Bones19Card 19: Monument ValleyOne False Note33Card 33: Samurai SaladinThe Sword Thief78Card 78: SakhetBeyond the Grave91Card 91: Kremlin SurveillanceThe Black Circle111Card 111: Anak KrakatauIn Too Deep149Card 149: Prison Number 4The Viper's Nest165Card 165: The NudelmansThe Emperor's Code211Card 211: Bermuda StrongholdStorm Warning220Card 220: The Last Chance

Into the Gauntlet

The Thomas Jefferson Puzzle

The Four Branch Founders