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Can men love you so much they hurt you by cheating?
First, I believe that your definition of love is confused. A person who really loves another person does not hurt them. The men that are cheating probably do not know how to love anyone but themselves. I would venture to say that they lust instead of love.As far as hurting you ,they are also hurting themselves and most likely have a poor self image of themselves. You need to stop seeing this type of man and come to a realization that a few minutes of a good feeling are not worth the emotional hurt or the reality of deadly std's. Just because a person is a male does not mean that he is a man. A real man respects the feelings of others and behaves himself by keeping his emotions under control. On the other hand, and animal acts out of instict and a desire for pleasure and is ruled by its flesh. Stay away from animals!
By all means I agree that if someone was cheating on mean i would feel as if they did not love me. And you need to make the decision that is right to you. However, keep in mind that every one makes mistakes....but they do have there consequences...do you still trust him or is he questionable about every little thing in you life....So people can change but you dont know that until you are the fooled one... fool me once--->shame on you fool me twice-->shame on me fool me thrice->your wanting to get hurt
From a personal experience you have to know why you are in a relationship with a guy. Am saying this because many guys get into relationships for different reasons. A guy may get into a relationship with a girl simply because she is great in bed or because it may boost the guys status to a certain group. By doing this the girl may get mislead since she might even be told that she is loved by the guy, but in real sense, the guy is out there cheating on her as she thinks that she is in a stable and a very rewarding relationship. The idea is to establish in advance why a guy is getting into a relationship with you, after that its a matter of communication and dedication to make the relationship a success.
NOPE IF HE LOVES YOU HE WONT CHEAT OR HURT YOU! (:
cheating is just cheating it wont change.if a man cheats on you just leave him even though he can say he love you just let him take a bow.there is no love in cheating.
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Because love is the only thing that holds everyone and everything together, which means it's worth it. In end you'r always with that someone you love and honestly... if you di…d truely love them .... it wouldnt matter how much you fight , or how many times you break up... in the end love is all u have because love brings happiness and sadness
Answer it does not hurt whenyou cheat because you are cheating on him because you dont like him and it does not hur &stars: it does not …hurt whenyou cheat because you are cheating on him because you dont like him and it does not hur &stars; it does not hurt whenyou cheat because you are cheating on him because you dont like him and it does not hur
it doesn't all ways have to be black men. Cheating is somebody's choice it doesn't matter what race you are black, white, asian, hawaiian, chinese, japanese, or any other …nationalities. Black men have a history with cheating because those are the stories we usually here about. Many people cheat so it isn't fair to say that one race cheats more than another. It really depends on how you were raised and the influence your parents had.
see dear, all relationships are equally distributed so we get both love and hurts, god had gifted us equally, its kind of difficult us to answer thse types of questions, no, r…elationships in the world that can't hurt u , all relationships hurt us, someday!!!!!!!!!!. and if ur asking about love , love gives us much happiness than anyother relationship,but it also hurt us more than anyother relationship. well, if u r hurted from ur love relationship!!!!!!!!!!!, don't be sad , well you'll get another love soon, wait for ur true love!!!!!!!!!!!.i wish u luck for ur coming true love!!!!!!!!!!!!! takecare!!!!!!!!dear,,,,,seeeya!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well there are many things you can do... One of them being to make him jelous OR to get over it and pretend that it never happend.
it dependz on who ur with. If u like the gur/girl and he/she likes u back u should totally go out, and it only hurtz when he/she hurtz u .....this is a complete lie you love t…his person to much, when your not with them the pain from not being with them is to great to handle. u love this person so much u cant stand not being with them. because if it didn't hurt then you never really loved them. You cannot except great happiness without the opposite in return. if a person truly makes you happy and you love that person, then the end of that love means the end to that happiness. I am currently going through this myself and notice that the pain is universal, so we can do one of two things; hold on hoping for their return to our live or wish them the best and continue with our. I choose to wish them the best in their live and to continue with mine, because in the end this sadness does pass and we must move on to fine our own happiness.
That is a very good question, and many people say after they have broken up with someone that they will never love any one else again. In some cases, this can be true, dependi…ng on the type of relationship and the circumstances of the break up (for example: did the other half die suddenly, or did they have a big argument and break up?) However, many people would say that love is a human instinct. People can't help loving other people. It can differ from person to person how much they let themselves love someone, but most people would say that every human being needs love to help them through life. Some people have built up such a wall around them that they are afraid to let themselves fall in love with someone. This might be because of past experience, therefore they are scared of rejection. However, i think that while someone is in love, it can be the happiest time of their life. Even if it ends badly, it helps people learn how to be in a loving relationship and what not to do in a relationship. It is one of the important things that almost every person goes through in their life, and I think it is also an important thing to go through being in love and learning from it. x
Here this is what you do: Tell them and stop being an emotional train wreck.
Love is a beautiful thing, being in love is only an amazing feeling if the two people feel the same way about each other. Being in love hurts because the person whom you would… like to give your heart to does not feel the same way. This is life. You need to move on and learn how to deal with it becasue it happens to all of us sometimes many, many times.
I don't know Hun. But ive been told its because sometimes people are heartless. that and you have to go through 1000 heartbreaks befor you find the special one. i just wish th…ey would show up at your door! Well, You do go through heartbreaks before you meet the one but then the one does turn up at your door, which happened in my case. Then they leave, after promoting all the bull of love and you are finally finished, devastated and your lesson is that there is no such thing as love and relationships are a waste of time. Your heart just got broken one too many times and you are now forever in torment and disbelief. You are angry and frustrated. You just give up and never can give your heart again. You hate people who say things happen for a reason because the only reason you can find is that you are a meaningless heap of crap and it was to completely destroy you. Then people say you will get over it in time or find someone else but why would you want to find someone else when you had the one. Then time keeps passing you by but you are consumed by the love you had for somone and then someone offers to you but it just isn't the same anymore. Your head just aches and you try to find ways to forget, even as far as seeing if you can be hypnotised to forget that the person even existed. There is nothing left because you try to give to someone else but it is just a smoke screen for how you trully feel. You were deceived by someone elses words to you that made you so sure that they would be with you forever. You just can't understand why, they never wanted you to love them the way you did. You are so torn that you rot away in your hidy hole and before you know it, years have passed. You are a long lost memory to them, while your memories seem like yesterday. They get of Scott free, while you get a life sentence. You then come to the conclusion that love and relationships are just a waste of time, and mostly fake. You offered everything you had to this person in exchange for total heartbreak. It sounds like you smothered them but No, it wasn't like that at all. They just lied to you when you told them taht maybe you should cool things because you were beginning to feel for them. They say that they feel the same and then you never hear from them again. There maybe plenty of fish in the sea but you found the one, the angel fish. Why would any other fish just do? It would be mean of you to be with some other fish because deep down, you only want your angel fish. For Angel they are not though.
Because in your mind and a guys ego your woman is your property and men cannot stand that another unit penetrated there woman and, possibly it was better then you can give the…m. lol...nice ?
I guess because if you want it so much, and maybe you get it but then find out that it's not what you thought it was, and so you're heartbroken because maybe the person you lo…ve doesn't love you back, or they cheat on you, or they find someone else that they like more, or other things along those lines. All you say is true but another thing is it is what you want so much and then they leave. Relationships and love are really a waste of time these days. There is really no loyalty, commitment or faithfulness. Everything boils down to sex now. When you have been hurt one too many times, you realize how meaningless you really are. No one stands by you when you need them. The pressures of life also add to the drama. And guess what? It really hurts when you are so dedicated to someone, would walk a million miles on hot coals, barefooted to get to them. Swim a thousand seas in hurricane winds to save them. Love them with butterflies in your heart be so loyal and honestly faithful, no matter what temptation you are offered, then they walk out. That is how meaningless you are and how much of a waste of time it is to love or be in a relationship. On top of that, If there are kids involved, it then become a bitter fight to the end for your children, and yep you lose that specialty as well. They grow up and all the fights and crap have made you miss out or maybe a vindictive self serving ex. That is why love hurts so much. A lot of the time, it is not the love that hurts, but the rejection and isolation. Even if someone loves you, but not as much or not in the same/right way, that can also be an implicit form of rejection. Each person wants to be loved differently. When someone does not love them in that exact way, it can feel like an incomplete love or insufficient love. The mental void that we create hurts ourselves.
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You have to understand that the more someone loves you the easier it is to hurt them. In the case of a women: men are generally stronger, so they cant physically hurt them. Me…n are able to deal with physical pain much better than with emotional pain. Women simply use what they can.
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Absolutely ! Many years ago, I met a woman at a place where I was working. From the first time I laid eyes on her it was as if everyone else in the room just vanished. ALL… I could see was her, and I fell in love with her from that first moment. The problem was she's a married woman. While I knew there was absolutely no chance we could ever be together, even now after more than 20 years, I STILL think of her every day !