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Can men love you so much they hurt you by cheating?
First, I believe that your definition of love is confused. A person who really loves another person does not hurt them. The men that are cheating probably do not know how to love anyone but themselves. I would venture to say that they lust instead of love.As far as hurting you ,they are also hurting themselves and most likely have a poor self image of themselves. You need to stop seeing this type of man and come to a realization that a few minutes of a good feeling are not worth the emotional hurt or the reality of deadly std's. Just because a person is a male does not mean that he is a man. A real man respects the feelings of others and behaves himself by keeping his emotions under control. On the other hand, and animal acts out of instict and a desire for pleasure and is ruled by its flesh. Stay away from animals!
By all means I agree that if someone was cheating on mean i would feel as if they did not love me. And you need to make the decision that is right to you. However, keep in mind that every one makes mistakes....but they do have there consequences...do you still trust him or is he questionable about every little thing in you life....So people can change but you dont know that until you are the fooled one... fool me once--->shame on you fool me twice-->shame on me fool me thrice->your wanting to get hurt
From a personal experience you have to know why you are in a relationship with a guy. Am saying this because many guys get into relationships for different reasons. A guy may get into a relationship with a girl simply because she is great in bed or because it may boost the guys status to a certain group. By doing this the girl may get mislead since she might even be told that she is loved by the guy, but in real sense, the guy is out there cheating on her as she thinks that she is in a stable and a very rewarding relationship. The idea is to establish in advance why a guy is getting into a relationship with you, after that its a matter of communication and dedication to make the relationship a success.
NOPE IF HE LOVES YOU HE WONT CHEAT OR HURT YOU! (:
cheating is just cheating it wont change.if a man cheats on you just leave him even though he can say he love you just let him take a bow.there is no love in cheating.
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Because, in the same way that women also cheat, the don't have the willpower or sufficient respect for their partner to resist temptation. If I was you I wouldn't put up wit…h it. You must deserve better.
Difficult Relationships When you love someone, it means you care for them and want to protect them. If you break up, you still have that need to protect and care for them, an…d this can leave a "hole" in your feelings. If you're in a relationship and it's not going well, and it hurts you, then it may not be love that you are feeling. Breaking UpAfter the breakup of close relationships, one or both of those involved can experience strong feelings of loneliness and/or loss. This is fortunately a temporary state in most circumstances, and will improve over time. Answer It is because we love that person that they are able to hurt us so easily. If we didn't love or care about that person we wouldn't care about the things that they do. It wouldn't bother us because we wouldn't have the emotions involved as we do when we love someone. Love is such a powerful emotion. It can bring tremendous joy and tremendous sadness. In order to love you must take the risk of being hurt. When you meet the right person, the benefit of loving and being loved is worth the risk. Being hurt by someone you love is devastating but hearing the words "I Love You" from that person is music to your ears.
Love is a beautiful thing, being in love is only an amazing feeling if the two people feel the same way about each other. Being in love hurts because the person whom you would… like to give your heart to does not feel the same way. This is life. You need to move on and learn how to deal with it becasue it happens to all of us sometimes many, many times.
No one really knows for sure... The truth is though, NO ONE KNOWS WHETHER OR NOT YOU WILL NOT END UP WITH THAT CERTAIN SOMEONE. They can't truly say that they won't, but on …the other side of the coin, you can't say that you will end up with them. I know this from experience. I love this girl and she will swear up and down that she will NEVER be with me, but lately her reactions say she DOES have feelings for me. She might not want to admit this to herself, but someday (hopefully soon) she will have too. The point is this, You might not or you might. There is no way to know for sure... The problem comes in when you make that person all of your world. There is a fine difference between that person being the center and all of your universe. If you let them be all, you're in trouble. The best thing to do make sure they are a huge part of your life, but not the center, much less all of it.
On most accounts yes. Why? There are a few reasons. Women in general are programed by their emotions, men work differently (i'm still trying to figure out how that is). So we …tend to take things more personally- which result in sadness, anger, pain and ultimately...grudges. Now, men....they tend to think very selfishly, which is a disaster to our "emotional lifestyle." So I have learned that when men, or the man I'M with, does something hurtful, who is he doing it for? HIMSELF. Why is he doing it? Because he FEELS like it. When will he choose to not hurt me anymore? Also, when he FEELS like it. I am in no way, nor will I ever, justify men for doing hurtful things to women just because they're known to be "selfish." They are very aware of their thoughts and actions and they know before they do those things if it will hurt you or not. Yes men hurt women they love, adore and cherish close to their heart but we're not the only ones they're hurting when they do those terrible or annoying things. They're really hurting themselves. In the end what they need is quite a few repetitions of self control, so they can prevent themselves from hurting the one they love so much.
it dependz on who ur with. If u like the gur/girl and he/she likes u back u should totally go out, and it only hurtz when he/she hurtz u .....this is a complete lie you love t…his person to much, when your not with them the pain from not being with them is to great to handle. u love this person so much u cant stand not being with them. because if it didn't hurt then you never really loved them. You cannot except great happiness without the opposite in return. if a person truly makes you happy and you love that person, then the end of that love means the end to that happiness. I am currently going through this myself and notice that the pain is universal, so we can do one of two things; hold on hoping for their return to our live or wish them the best and continue with our. I choose to wish them the best in their live and to continue with mine, because in the end this sadness does pass and we must move on to fine our own happiness.
yes you dont date people who cheated on you B: In my opinion not all wives who got hurt from their husbands affair lost the love they have for their husband. It all depend on… what kind of problem they are having to why the husband end up finding another woman. But maybe there are some wives out there who got hurt so bad that loving their husband back will be impossible, and that includes yours truly. To some loving our husband back after the affair will take a miracles and sometimes divorce is the only way out. To be hurt by someone we love will take time to heal especially if our spouse fell in love with his mistress. Who ever you are I do hope that your problem can be solve. Good luck!
Depends. Some cases it's denial of feelings because theyre too immature to handle them, other cases comes from other influences meaning their "friends" may just be influencing… them to hurt you out of jealousy. You'd be surprised how much influence guys have over one another! If the guy is easily lead and weak willed his friends will try and take advantage of his emotions especially if they are miserable themselves, they dont want to see others happy if they arent first, selfish and no good as friends. And the most accurate is due to narcissism. Narcissism is the lack of empathy for another besides oneself. And trust me Narcissist are very aware of what their doing. But still they only pity their feelings and deny others because they're self absorbed and mentally unstable.
I have no answer for you. There is someone that I miss so much that it hurts too. Kinda how I came to this question. We only spent several days of quality time together as co…-workers. And now we are in different places again. I want to stop feeling like this. I can't concentrate on what I am doing. I am pretty sure she has someone in her life already. And she spent a night with some dude in the short time that I've known her. So......chances are slim to none. Why the hell do I still see her whenever I close my eyes? Her smile, her hair blowing in the wind, her oversize scrubs, her voice, her ice-cream, her daily Starbucks coffee, her glasses..... Will someone please just rip my heart out.
You have to understand that the more someone loves you the easier it is to hurt them. In the case of a women: men are generally stronger, so they cant physically hurt them. Me…n are able to deal with physical pain much better than with emotional pain. Women simply use what they can.
idk exactly cause I'm not married. but from I've read it depends though. sometimes men cheat when they are bored of their wives but deep inside they sometimes still love em. … ANSWER; Some married men do, but still it's not a strong love that can help them not to cheat. There are married men who are happy with their marriage and yet they still find themselves cheating and betraying their wives.
Because love is the only thing that holds everyone and everything together, which means it's worth it. In end you'r always with that someone you love and honestly... if you di…d truely love them .... it wouldnt matter how much you fight , or how many times you break up... in the end love is all u have because love brings happiness and sadness
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Feeling Hurt? Of course, no one goes through life without getting hurt. We all have our moments. But, what matters most, is how we deal with these moments. Do we let them… pass, suffering the pain, swallowing it. Of course, most of the time the pain will get stuck in our throat. It will seldom go away. But isn't it possible that the person inflicting the pain, in this case a man, does not really know how badly he has hurt you? As if he were a child, you will have to teach him how you feel when you get hurt. How can you do that? Of course, you know the answer. You must hurt him equally. Yes, this sounds terrible, but there is no other way. Reason won't do it. It is the pain we experience that will change our behavior.
When your period hurts it is cramps. You can help your self in several ways. Cut out sugars, caffeine, and junk foods right off the top. Take Pamprin or Midol to cut the pain …( you can get this in the drug store) and put a heating pad on your back or tummy. My guess is you may also have PMS before your period and feel moody, your breasts hurt, you have small cramps, backaches, headaches and swelling. If you take B6 when this starts and also cut out the caffeine, sugar and junk foods this will help.
Absolutely ! Many years ago, I met a woman at a place where I was working. From the first time I laid eyes on her it was as if everyone else in the room just vanished. ALL… I could see was her, and I fell in love with her from that first moment. The problem was she's a married woman. While I knew there was absolutely no chance we could ever be together, even now after more than 20 years, I STILL think of her every day !