Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Psychopathy can be -- and often are -- components of child abuse. They are both clinically-defined conditions with certain criteria that must be met in order for a diagnosis to be made.
If the behaviour of a parent is that of a sociopath then yes it can sometimes be inherited. Children copy their parents, they rationalise the behaviour as normal and so they replicate it.
It is a strong person who can recognize a terminally ill parent who has been abusive to them and yes, it is possible and mature to see the abusive treatment as part of that terminally ill disease.
Probably. I think I know her.
If the child who was abused by their parent wants to retain a relationship with them, it is their choice but I wouldn't as you never know what they'll do to you next. I would just consider that family member to be a non-entity.
Tell your parent that you want their opinion of the book.
You can become a foster parent if you don't have a criminal record. You can not have an abusive environment for the child to come into.
You have to ask if they are a narcissistic parent or a concerned parent that worries when you don't answer their email. There is nothing more frustrating than emailing someone in another town or country and not having them even reply with a short note. If your parent is truly a narcissist and you want no further contact with them then have the guts to tell them.
There are two articles on this topic that I am aware of and all she inherited were problems. The golden child might inherit, but I doubt the scapegoat will. http://gailmeyers.hubpages.com/hub/The-Death-of-an-NPD-Parent-A-Terminally-Ill-Malignant-Narcissist http://gailmeyers.hubpages.com/hub/When-a-Parent-with-Narcissistic-Personality-Disorder-is-Terminally-Ill
you're an abusive parent?
Yes. The grandparent will need to go through the proper legal channels, but if he or she can prove that the biological parent is abusive and unfit to be the child's guardian, they can win custody.
If you are dealing with a mentally abusive parent, it is important to prioritize your own well-being and safety. Consider seeking support from a trusted adult, such as a teacher, counselor, or relative, who can provide guidance and assistance. In more severe cases, involving authorities or seeking professional help may be necessary to protect yourself from further harm.
A malignant narcissist cannot magically shed his damaging patterns of behavior to bestow unconditional love upon his child. A good parent is one who places his child's needs above his own. A narcissist always places their needs first.