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How can you make yourself love your husband again after his affair?
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∙ 12y ago
it is very hard to forgive someone who had affair outside of your marriage.however marriage is a sacred bond given to man by God which no man can break apart.the feeling you may have will take a very emotional toll on you but its best to try and talk with you husband,find out his reason for cheating. you might be too busy for him or you might not be attractive to him anymore.but face the facts hes your husband he belongs to you and its your responsibility to keep him.this woman might have been doing alot of things that you dont do and these are the activities that will pull your husband's attraction. you as the wife should analyze your husband's complaints and ensure that you do what ever it takes to pull back his attraction to you. you might want to bring your fun side back to him,go out and have fun,stay home get drunk and get wild,make him want u again,cook him dinner and then give him a tease,be more of a friend to him so he can be open to you.dont be a strict wife.
The way to love him again is to trully forgive him. Just deciding to forgive won't be enough, there's a process you have to go through, which starts with acceptance. In the link added below, you can read about how to do it.
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∙ 12y ago
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Why would you want to have an affair if you love your husband?
you wouldn't.
Is it normal for a wife to loose her love towards her husband after his affair?
Anything possible
Is Mrs Obama having an affair at the Olympics?
No. She is a public figure and it is clear she is in love with her husband.
You lie to your husband telling him that you love him because you are affraid of losing your kids after confessing to an affair but you are still are in love with your lover?
I would tell him that you lied. Tell him why you lied. Tell him that you won't do it again, you just were worried of what would happen. You can do it!
Do wives really ever forget about a husbands affair?
Uhm, no they basically lose all trust for their husbands. If the Husband didn't want to lose their wife they never should have had an affair in the first place. Juss sayingANSWER:I don't know about others, but for some wives, including myself you will never forget your husband's affair, especially if your husband fell in love with the woman he was having the affair with. If you ask man some will say it doesn't bothers them, some will say they can handle it as long as the wife will not do it again. But in a real world, a lot of women will not forget the affair, even they forgiven their husband. Also it will depend on how bad the situation is..
What could happen if I keep loving a married man when I am already married?
Most people who have a conscience would feel haunted by the fact they are cheating on their husband and the affair would suffer because of it. Also you could run the risk of being caught by your husband and some men are not willing to forgive so easily when hurt that badly. If you love your husband then it would be wise of you to end the affair immediately. If you do not love your husband then do not keep cheating, but let your husband know the truth and file for divorce and then, and only then should you be seeing this other man. When in doubt put yourself in the shoes of your husband!
How can you fall in love with your husband again and stop thinking about your ex?
Dedicate yourself to making your husband happy. Unless he is a loser, he will respond by dedicating himself to making you happy, and that's about the best a marriage can be!
Ending an affair?
how does a husband who claims he fell in love with his mistress end this affair i thought we've been happily married for twenty seven years
Why is it hard to love your spouse again after his affair?
It is hard because you know he is not faithful. Psychology wise: Number one need for a person is consistency. It gives security and a sense of stableness which allows a good relationship. The affair breaks this which demolishes the consistency between the husband and wife. Also, affairs will demolished the self-esteem of both husband and wife.
Can you love again after an affair?
I think that it is possible to love again after an affair. I think you didn't stop loving, it's the anger and humiliation that hides the love...if you want to love again you have to forgive trully. It's not easy, takes work, but it's possible. Below there's a link to an article about how to forgive a spouse for cheating, it may be very helpful to you.
How can your husband say he loves you and wants you back after he had an affair?
Your husband is obviously regretting what he did. It is your decision though to take him back. If you love him maybe give him a second chance.
Can you make your marriage better than ever after your husband's affair?
No. He lied to you about love. Sure, you can forgive him, but that won't fix what he did.
