You can't share premises with a physically violent abuser (batterer) and avoid harm altogether.
You can either confront him (usually involving the police and the courts), succumb to his demands (short term, inefficient, and counterproductive solution), or contract with him (which works intermittently).
Get items that cannot be replaced (photos, heirlooms, cherished Christmas ornaments, anything with sentimental value) out of the house and into either a storage unit or a friend or relative's house. This will take away much of the emotional involved in N's threats to destroy these items and help you focus on YOU and your own safety during confrontation. Keep a cell phone charged and on your person at all times when home with the N. Get a voice activated mini-recorder. Use it when N rages, and at least let N see that you have it. Mention (lie if you have to) that the last time he threatened to "[repeat some threat N made to harm you]" you got it on tape and will not hesitate to call the police and have him removed from the house should he get out of line.
The answers to this question vary as much as the degrees of the abuser's feeling of safety in doing harm or the depth of his fear. I am presently involved in this situation. Mr.B.'s fear is that society will learn he is not the man he portrays himself to be in the public eye. While I was submissive and tried for years to explain the effect his behavior had on me, now, I'm verbally combative any time he attempts to get my attention. I try to keep him confused and off-balance. He doesn't know the "safe" approach. He is confused about this new person and he fears that I'll focus the public eye on the reasons for my exit. Where I contributed to his N supply before, today I focus on diminishing his power in exactly the opposite way, in order to make the experience so totally in contrasting opposition to my normal behavior, that he has become very wary of what I might say next...or to whom. He's in unfamiliar territory. He suspects I may be capable of emulating his behavior back at him. As long as he is confused and unsure of his own safety, my bluff keeps him away from me. It's a downhome bluffing remedy. Baffle them and keep them off guard until you get out the door. Intimate exposure of their true self without directly stating a threat...which would foster competition and a real battle. I am challenging his bravado and depending on his real cowardice to get me through the next few weeks. So far, it's working to my advantage.
You could stay indoors to protect yourself.
You can hide under something hard to protect yourself if the hail is big. Or you can go somewhere where there is no hail!
We could protect ourselves from sun's harmful rays. It is by curbing the use of CFC's.
To protect yourself, curb CFC's. They are the ones causing depletion.
drop,cover,and hold
Leave and if the children favor her, let her have them, respect yourself. Notify the authorities and make a report, protect yourself legally. As for the physical harm, block, but do not strike back, do not escalate the situation by having any further words, call the police to come and allow you to gather your belongings. Move on with your life in a more sane and peaceful environment, free of violence, threats, and manners of control.
uhmm to protect yourself from a crocodile is to... GET AWAY FROM IT?!
You could stay indoors to protect yourself.
you protect yourself by saying you have something bad--for kidnap
how can you protect yourself as therapist from inappropriate behaviourhide
Use a condom. Also, avoid physical contact with people when you have open cuts in your mouth, hands and feet.
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they put more sandbags around their homes to protect their homes and anttics and the get insurance
You can protect yourself. You have to wear sunscreen.
to save space To protect ourselves and our belongings from the climate, the seasons and the weather.
To carry out a scene survey, first ensure personal safety and the safety of others. Survey the scene for potential hazards, assess the number of patients, and identify resources needed for assistance. Take note of important details such as mechanism of injury, environment conditions, and any bystanders present.
One of the most effective methods to protect yourself and others from harm and abuse is to be aware of your surroundings. Another important point is to establish open honest communications with those who may help you when in need. And finally, to be educated is to be safe,