How could your boyfriend cheat on you if the day before your 5-month anniversary he said he wanted to marry you and the girl he cheated with was less attractive?

Answer 1

First of all if she was ugly you should feel vindicated because it wasn't her looks that caught him Second men will say whatever and whenever if it gets them what they want. I was with a guy for four years and on December 31, 2004 I found out he was cheating on me with another girl to top that off he was at my house the week before Christmas slept with me and ask me to marry him for the a millionth time even took out the time to sing me the song your once, twice three times a lady by Lionel Richie and then the week after Christmas he went to the other girls house and ask her to marry him now ain't that about a mess but anyone my point to you is this I had to wait four years and was madly in love with him and he with me prior to him cheating before he ever cheated on me and what hurt the most for me was I was there for him all four years but you found out what kind of man you had in a short period of time I wish my ex would have cheated on me five months into our relationship because since we were together four years it's harder for me to get over him don't stress about that mess because a man never knows what he's got until it's gone and even though he may have messed around with her you should know you were the best he ever had and he will regret it because my ex has stayed in touch me the year and couple of months we've been apart shoot he called me three times in a row last week and the week before that came to see me on the same day we broke up wanted to give me a kiss and a hug so don't worry he realize what he's missing when he has his alone time so don't stress love yourself before anyone else will don't be hurt because you didn't waste his time he wasted yours.

Good Luck!!! Go Get You a New Man!!!

AnswerOuch! Time to leave him. If he can't stay faithful now, he won't later. Whether the girl is more or less attractive shouldn't have anything to do with how bad it hurts. It would hurt just as bad if she were the same or prettier. He has a weakness and I doubt you want to deal with it later. Dump the jerk! Find an honest and faithful man who deserves you, do not settle. AnswerHes insecure about his manhood. These types are usally lousy in bed and feel they have to prove their macho ways by sleeping around. I was with a man who was a real dud in bes right from the start. He was so amazed by our sex but I just thought it was very mediocre. Anyhow, he cheated lots and one woman I spoke with said she also thought he was a real bore in the hay. This loser was aging fast and impotency was starting to kick in so he thought he had to prove somin by making other women dissapointed in bed. It was amusing actually and thank god I used protection. I also noticed he had a small penis and i think he was trying to look for validation. He was normal in height and weight but I shoulda followed my gut instinct when I noticed he had too small hands for his height! Also he was bald and that usually means he is lacking in penis length. I heard this from my family doctor years ago. Its odd though cause my ex husband was the most well endowed lover and the best in bed I have ever had and also had a full head of hair and he never not once cheated! He was heaven in bed and hell out of it though. But I swear after my marriage has ended and I have been to bed with a couple guys and I think my ex husband was the best oil riggin, sweet-lovin lay I ever had and I almost want to meet with him and have a round of good sex after the last couple duds.