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just tell your self that u need to leave and that you want to leave and as you say it every day you will get the mental courage to leave i swear on it that you will... iv tryed it so many times!!!!!

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It's not about having courage to leave your spouse when he/she cheated on you. It is about what your heart is telling you, and how you feel about what just happened to your life. Ask yourself if you still want a life with your spouse after this big fiasco that you are facing. Don't let any one tell you what to say or what to do because this is your life not theirs. Think it through very carefully because it will be you who needs to make a decision.

Your spouse will tell you lots so you will believe him/her, such as "I didn't know it would become this way" or "I don't have feelings for her/him".

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Talking to friends, family, and even a physcologist will help. One needs to take a deep breath, tell themselves that this is right, and the spouse is wrong, then pack their stuff and leave.

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