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run as fast as you can!!!!!!!!!! run as fast as you can!!!!!!!!!! seriously though, they are dangerous in more ways than one. especially to one's mental and emotional well being. The best way if you are married to one or living with one is to move out as soon as you can (do not let them know what you are doing). the narcissist is a charmer and he will only charm you into staying so he can continue abusing you. keep in mind you are the source of his narcissistic supply and they hate to be alone. once you leave, change your cell phone number and keep your address unlisted as well as your landline. avoid any contact with him. if you must talk to him, (regarding custody,taxes, divorce filing,etc) then make sure to stick to the subject and if he starts getting off the subject let him know that unless he is going to discuss the matter at hand you are going to hang up. you must take the upper hand so he does not have the opportunity to do it first. Unfortunately, it may mean you have to change where you shop and even possibly your church home, but avoiding contact altogether is vital. They hate to be ignored, but eventually when he sees you are really going out of your way to avoid him, he will move on to another victim. The best way to get back at a narcissist is to move on and have a happy life because that is something they will never have.
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∙ 10y agoProbably, staying away from her would be the smart thing to do. If you have children together that may be difficult - if not - try the No Contact rule. If she is your ex why do you have to deal with her at all assuming that there is no children together.
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∙ 14y agoI think that you should either sit down with him and have very serious, but calm, talk about it. And if you think it is necessary then go ahead and set up some type of family counseling, but don't do anything behind anybodies back, because you do not want to create mistrust..... I Hope it works out for you, I am 16, and I would defiantly prefer having two parents of equal strength, rather than one overpowering the other.
..Good Luck..
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How does no contact work with a narcissist?
No contact is the best way to part ways with a narcissist. You must remain consistent and end contact completely and forever.
Does explaining to a Narcissist how they act and how dysfunctional they are help them to change?
Best guess, it can. There is no other way for a true narcissist to be aware of issues within him or herself.
How does narcissism affect an individual?
depending on if your the narcissist or just someone around the narcissist..... if you are the narcissist dont worry it wont effect you. You will just continue on with your selfish ways and use people for what they can do for you. If your someone around the narcissist..... RUN- get out while you can. The only way to really survive is to not have them in your life
What is the best revenge of a compensatory narcissist?
There is no such thing as a 'compensatory narcissist'. It is a fake term made up by psychopath Sam Vaknin (see Related Links). No Contact with a Narcissist is always best.
Is there any way to get a narcissist to want you again?
What is the usage of the term "narcissist" and how does it reflect upon this situation. I do not understand. nar
It is best to ignored a narcissist?
Yes it is......... I know from experience
Will you get over your ex who is a narcissist?
Most people go through the heartache of losing someone they love whether they are a narcissist or not. Considering your ex is a narcissist you will begin to realize how lucky you were getting away from your ex. There is someone very special out there for you and fate has a way of forcing us down different roads of life to get something better in our lives. Hang on!
When was The Best Way to Ruin Your Life created?
The Best Way to Ruin Your Life was created in 2002-06.
If a narcissist ignores you what should you do?
You should ignore them back and be thankful you are not in their circle of victims. Get on with your life and don't fret over not getting attention from a narcissist.
Is there any way to get back an emotionally abusive narcissist who was once in your life but has 'discarded' you from theirs?
Be disrespectful to yourself and shower hm/her with exaggerated respect. Humiliate yourself and worship the narcissist. Be his/her loyal slave. You have the choice to either respect the narcissist or yourself, because you can't respect both of you at the same time. Choose wisely. Please don't do yourself a disservice by trying to get a narcissist back into your life. You answered your own question...they dicarded you from theirs...just as they will continue to do with either you or others. You are worth much more than that. That person will not respect you or give you the love you deserve. Why would you want to re-introduce an abusive narcissist into your life? Count your blessings for having gotten rid of him!
How do you get rid of a pathological narcissist that has invaded and infected your life?
No contact forever!
Narcissist in love with a narcissist?
It's certainly possible. A narcissist may date another narcissist that is more selfish than they are to feel better about themselves. In turn say "i'm not as selfish as he/she is so that makes me above him/her). It's incredible and shocking the way people with this disorder think. It takes a lot of research to understand a narcissist.
