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You remove everything that reminds you of the abuser, burn some of the stuff safely, they say that helps empower you. Dont have any contact with the abuser, even people that you know through them. Change your surroundings, color, scheme, etc. Stear clear of anyone that has similar attributes as the abuser. Know that you did not do anything to make this weak individual try to control you, they do so out of fear, their own. Get some self help books on esteem and confidence. Go out and do things for yourself, something everyday, that you can enjoy. Plant a garden and watch beautiful things grow right in front of your eyes, doesnt have to be big. Seeds are .99 cents for 4 in dollar store, half your milk containers and you will need good potting soil, 401bs at Home Depot 1.19. Smile at yourself everyday in the mirror and tell yourself that you are somebody and worthy of respect and decency, no one has the right to treat you indifferently and if they do you stand up for yourself. There should be some groups in your county that have survivors of abuse that can help you even more because they will know exactly how you feel. Try a meeting or two and if its not for you, don't go. Start a voluteer group of your own, volunteer at the humane society, when people help others it fills them with compassion and instills adoration. Good luck. and Im sorry that you had to experience what you did....

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