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No-one can tell you when you're in love. Only you will know- you just feel it.
That person is in your heart and on your mind always. You have no interest in anyone else at all. You cannot wait to see them again and just hearing their voice on the phone can bring such happiness and joy. You want them to be happy and will sometimes sacrifice your own happiness for theirs. You want to be a better person and will be. You will do anything to defend them when necessary. The world seems to be a better place even though it is not. You want them to share the things they love with you. You want to share the things you love with them. You want to do special things for them that you know they will enjoy. You want to hold them, kiss them, and share all the intimate things you both enjoy with each other. You are there for them always. You trust, respect, and allow him or her their own personal space that everyone must have. Your love does not fade if separated for long periods of time or through hardships.
How does one know they are in love? In English the word love means many things. You love your pet, you love your Pizza, you love your wife. One thing it is not, is making "love" to your girlfriend: this is lust. Love is usually consdered to be a noun, but it is a verb. My wife and I have been married 38 years. There are times we don't "feel" in love. One of the best definitions of love is in St. Paul's writings, "Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
1Corinthians 13:4-7. Love is the way you behave toward another. When the gushy feelings are gone, will you still treat them with kindness and think the best things of them? Personally, I looked at the girs I dated and tried to visualize them in robe eating breakfast wth their hair curlers up. I married the girl that I could visualize with goodness that I could see this way. Karen was a great choice.
It is a very common question, "How can I tell I'm in love?", but it is not an easy question to answer. What feels like love to one person may be nothing more than attraction to another. Some people fall in and out of love quickly and often while others are never really in love as much as they are in lust. This can get confusing when you are a teen because romantic love is a relatively new concept for you and you don't know what to expect. You are overwhelmed with all sorts of new feelings and social pressures. They are confusing. What is love? What makes you want a romantic relationship with one person and not another? How does your heart choose a partner? Why does love end? These questions can't be easily answered.
One of the most confusing quasi-love feelings is lust. Lust is a very powerful, very intense feeling of physical attraction toward another person. Lust is mainly sexual in nature - the attraction is superficial based on instant chemistry rather than genuine caring. Usually we lust after people we do not know well, people we still feel comfortable fantasizing about. It is very common for people to confuse lust for love. But why? What is it about lust and love that make them so easy to mix up? If lust is all about sex, how can a relationship without sex be about lust? Teens struggle with this because they see lust in the Biblical sense, but lust isn't that sinister. Lust is about physical attraction and acting ONLY on physical attraction. Love is about much more than that. Yet many teens (and to be fair, many adults) confuse an intense attraction for some sort if divine love. For teens, since feelings of attraction are still new and since pop-culture sells sex and love as one package, it is very easy to get the two mixed up.
Lust is clearly not love. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that. Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and trust. When you are in love it is as if you have your best most trusted friend at your side AND you feel physically attracted to them. It is the best of both worlds! Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one anothers happiness. Love is not about jealousy. It is not about conflict. It is not about testing. Love is a positive feeling. If it is tainted by mistrust, jealousy, insecurity or spitefulness it is not really love but merely a pale copy. Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. Love should feel good. It should not feel bad. Love should make you want to be a better person, it should not lead you to do something self destructive. Love is not demanding of your spirit but lifts it and makes it glow. Love is a good thing. Anything less is lust, deep friendship or attraction. So the sappiness aside, the question remains, how can you tell you are in love?
There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but there are some tell-tale signs that love is blooming (or growing deeper). If you agree with 7 of the following 9 statements you are probably in love.
bobby vinton
pets know when you love them and they love you as you love them.
You will know that you love someone when you know you are willing to do anything for that person. Real love is uncondictional love.
I don't know who you love. I know who i do but i don't know who you love but don't have unsafe s*x of kiss
It's the Humana "grandparents" tv ad.
Yes you can love them for what you know about them. Then as you get to know them better you can love the rest of them for what they are.
You know you are in love when you have feelings towards others. You think of the person you are in love with.
You know you are in love when you have feelings towards others. You think of the person you are in love with.
To Know Him Is to Love Him was created in 1969.
I Know You Love Me was created in 1997.
You Know That I Love You was created in 1979.
To Know You - Is to Love You - was created in 1952.