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How do you finger yourself good?

Updated: 8/9/2023
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Choose a time when you are relaxed, comfortable, and have privacy. One ideal time is when you have gone to bed for the evening, and have turned out the lights. Remove all your clothes, except you might be best (for the first few times) to leave your panties on for the moment. Reach down to just below your mound, and experiment with your first three fingers, exploring around that area for a few minutes to notice where it feels nicest to touch. You are looking for your clitoris (the wee little pea-shaped part, beneath a hood of skin that is delicate and sensitive). Caress the whole area of your vulva (external genitals) but be aware it is likely to feel best rubbing near the top, just below where your lips meet -. where your clitoris is. The purpose of leaving your knickers on initially is that direct clitoral stimulation is a bit much for some women until they are somewhat aroused. If you are still wearing them, take them off now. Put your middle finger into the entrance of your vagina, and notice if it is moist. If it is, rub some of the moisture between your vulva lips - up and down the slit, but especially towards the top of your slit, where the clit is. If it's dry, lick your fingertips, and keep gently rubbing where it feels best. It will soon become moist at your vaginal entrance, and once it does, use the moisture for lubrication. Once the entance to your vagina is plenty wet, you can now gently insert your middle finger, as deep as is comfortable. While your middle finger is quite deeply in, try pressing your fingertip into the front wall of your vagina (curling your finger somewhat). You are searching for what is called your "G-spot". Rub around the front wall of your vagina, moving your finger somewhat back and forth, searching for where it feels best. You may or may not find your G-spot on your first attempt, but keep on trying awhile. Try using a couple of fingers. Note though that many women masturbate (stimulate themselves to orgasm) solely by rubbing their clitoris - either directly or just beside it. Not all women use a finger (or fingers) in the vagina to get there. The trick is to play and experiment until you find what works best for you, and whatever that is, is perfect! Know that it is absolutely okay to masturbate, and you can do it as much as you want to, your whole life. It is for you, and is meant to be very enjoyable. Enjoy playing with your vulva.

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well if you are in a relationship with another girl you can have her go into your bed room and you can get sexual by rubbing her breats and if she likes it mave down and take off all her stuff that she is wearing and take off all your chlothes to and she will finger you while ur fingering her

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11y ago

you stick your finger up his but and press on his g spot
Your question implies a "Finger in the bum" but perhaps you intended asking :How should I respond in kind?" or "How can I make him happy?" If so then wrapping your hand loosely around his penis and making small movements will generally "get his attention" as in at attention. When he is ready move you hand slowly and loosely to the base so the skin can slip through your hand. When all the way to the base you can grip a little tighter and then stroke your hand to the end allowing the skin to to slip through and not be pulled too tight. That hurts! Once you've figured out how much skin there is and that it reaches both ends you can start to slowly slide back and forth. Make him tell you what to do or listen very closely to his breathing and see how tense he is. That will give you some clues on how you're doing. Otherwise he has to show you himself as every man is different, expects different attention, and has a different tolerance to pleasure and pain.

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The first step to prepare for sex is to let your mind make a tour of it. This is meditation upon it. Since good sex involves two people, it is good to create a conducive environment for at least 12 hours. The conducive environment is made through:

  1. have a nice talks
  2. have a leisure time together
  3. not annoying your partner
  4. avoiding embarrassments
  5. having delicious food
  6. having lovely funnies
  7. wearing attractively
  8. avoiding tiredness - be active
  9. thinking and doing what will please your partner
  10. never forget to touch the arousal tips of your partner

forget the above, drink a bottle of plonk, stick it in and don't worry about arousal tips :P
for a male you must gather these necessities sand paper, lemon juice, and some tissues. first you thouroughly slather your member with lemon juice, then grab said sand paper make a tube shape (gritty side facing inwards) and vigorously stroke your unit. use tissues to clean up with when finished. Females use Bowling pin place it on the floor climb on top of your dresser. (totally nude of course) and do a cannon ball from your dresser aiming your Vaj at the tip of the bowling pin. repeat until orgasm is obtained.

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14y ago

you can ask them to or put there hand on your vagina

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11y ago

Start by running the out side of ur vagina then slowly move in so u r wet then let ur partner do the rest:)

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7y ago

Fingering is a method of masturbation in girls. In this method , fingers are used to stimulate the clitoris. also fingers are inserted into the vagina and moved in and out.

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13y ago

stick ur finger way up in ur vigina

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Jus ask

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3y ago

your can start but going to a place where no one can hear u And get unbresed take your finger and put it up and down your then take anything that viberates and do it together and push it to make the cum go out have fun fun

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Why does your boyfriend have you lick his fingers after he fingers you?

Guys want you to lick their finger after they finger you cuz they think you taste good and its a turn on to watch you taste yourself. also because they feel turned on by you as well and they might do more than just finger you. which should be fine as long as you have a condom.


What does it mean to finger yourself?

It means to stick you finger inside yourself in a private area. Usually your horny first and your by yourself and you need to be pleased so you might wanna wash your hands first and then stick one or two of your fingers into your vagina and go in and out and you will usually reach orgasmic stage. and that's when your done unless you want some more.


How do you finger yourself hard?

If you are a girl that wants to finger your own vagina you have to be willing! First, you need to get COMPLETELY naked. Second, you should lay down to do it. Third, start with one finger and move ur way up to two finger. To start off you need to masturebate a little before you go into your vagina. Try watching some porn videos or rubbing yourself really hard and fast. After that, you can start opening your legs wide and just push and push and push really hard with your finger. Once your finger is up yourself, wiggle your finger around and just have fun with it!


How do you finger yourself in the bath?

Make sure the water has not so much soap and then get two fingers and go in and out or rub on your 🐱


If you finger a girl there is white stuff on your finger when you pull out what is that?

It means you did a good job. (: Lol