You have several options with this. First you need to understand that people can raise children using different parenting styles but still produce happy successful adults. Of course, if the things this person is doing are placing that child's life in danger or are considered abusive, they must be reported to the authorities immediately. If the parenting technique this person is using or not using has been proven detrimental to a child's chances for success in studies or statistically then you can give her "feedback" ( instead of criticism) If she is extremely sensitive and and does not receive differing opinions well and you want to keep your relationship with her, you have two options:
1. Write her an anonymous letter but keep your concerns fact based. Describe the behavior you are concerned with and why it concerns you. Its always good to cite scientific reasons why her parenting technique is not in the best interest of her or her child.
2. Talk to her gently in person. Approach it from the perspective that you are completely concerned for her and the stress she will face in the future if she continues to parent in that way. For example: If your friend is giving their child everything the ask for, explain that you are worried that she is setting up a life long burden of providing goodies for her kids and that giving them everything won't allow them to figure out ways to get things for themselves. If you put it to her in a way that is not critical but based on your love for her, she will receive it much better.
If you don't mind if she become angry with you, you could:
1. The next time you witness her doing what you object to you, can simply say: " I don't think you should........" and why. Don't start you statement with "You shouldn't ....." That is too attacking.
2. email her in concrete terms with your concerns. Do not use judgmental statements such as: 'You're being a bad mom when you...." Instead, you could phrase it: "Look what I learned at this great parenting website. Studies are now coming out about how important it is or isn't that parents do ........." You can even give an example of how you have been tempted to or actually have done the parenting technique in question. She will definitely be more open to the feedback then. The worst thing you can do is give an impression that you and your children are perfect and she and her children are failures. She will not receive your advice well at all. Think about your parenting. No parent is perfect. Pick some thing you do that could be improved upon. Imagine a friend coming to you with concerns about that behavior. How would you like for them to present it? Present your concerns that way.
You don't. We don't have any right to judge someone else's relationship with their child or children. There are many ways of bringing up a child and most of them are good.... one may not be the way you would do it, but that doesn't mean it is a bad way.
If the bad parenting places the child in danger of any kind then you need to act. However, what you do depends on the details which you have not provided. Consider the following:
Tell the parent or take care of it yourself. If they have a gun then tell the police or the parent of that child.
You tell an adult or ignore them. Better to tell a parent or teacher.
Tell someone about it. Don't be afraid to tell a friend, parent, or even a teacher.
ask someone!
tell someone or the police, or you can talk to the parent. act fast before its too late.
They could be smiling if it is good news or if they are frowning its bad news.
Hey, If it is really bad you should tell your parent's then report it to the police because you never know what they are of so yeah just try and not talk to thm okayy hope i could help byee :] If Somone Is Making You Feel Uncomfortable On The Internet Tell A Parent Because They Normally Help :)
tell them that they smell bad!
Tell a parent so they can take whatever action appropriate.
tell them to stop. if that doesnt work tell someone you trust, most likely a parent
all you have to do is tell them to leave you alone sometimes if you tell them to leave you alone it won't work if they keep harassing you tell a parent or teacher they will help you why they keep harassing you,
to stop it bad