How we can understand the true love of a girl?

Answer 1

Women are very complex to start with. When a women is in love with a man she will overlook the little lies that a man may tell. If the man she is in love with is not feeling well she will do all that she can to make him feel better. She will stay up with him all night with pleasure rubbing his head, stomach, and do what she can to nurture him back to good heath. She will put up with his inconsideration of her being. She will try her best to be your friend. She will listen to your story about your love for another woman and try not to be judgmental about the outcome. She will make an agreement to allow you to be what you are. There may come a time when she will have to say no. Not because she doesn't love you or accept you as you are; she may not want to play the game of being secound best in your world anymore. We as humans all have wounds, and those wounds hurt. There comes a time when we have to protect our wounds, even from the people we love. When a women is in love with you, you will know it. Yes, let's talk about friendship. The friendships between men and women. The caring for each other between men and women. The unselfishness between men and woman who care for each other. That's what it's all about. Forget about true love. Love is but a temporal, visceral or instinctive response to another human being. It is alikeness, a feeling that there is someone who thinks and feels like you, that matters. The more you are alike, the easier the understanding. Yes, it means that your girl feels the same way - or similarly - about things like you do. That's the thing that counts. Read more about relationships and choices in Meyer's "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters" and Beattie's "Choices, Taking Control of Your Life and Making it Better."