Husband loves you but not in love with you?

Answer 1

This is a very difficult question, as I think you may be saying that he loves you as a person, may love being married with you and sharing your life together, but isn't in love with you as a woman, which of course, is a big part of being married with someone.

I hope that you value yourself as a woman, whether or not your husband is in love with you. It is not easy when you come to this realization and it must hurt. You can't make someone else care for you if there truly aren't any feelings that way.

One of the things that can happen over a long time in a relationship is that one (or both) persons can begin to take each other for granted and the romance seems to disappear. This isn't something that can be talked out, but needs to be acted on.

A suggestion is to see how you can bring some romance back into your marriage, since you know that he loves you. When a man sees that his wife values herself as a woman, he will value her more also. This works both ways. So do things to pamper yourself as a woman-there's no one right way, this is what it means to you. Add a little mystery. Don't ask him to respond, just begin enjoying and discovering what it means to you to be a woman.

Sometimes, a spouse needs to feel less pressured about a situation and they will respond better when they feel their spouse reduces some emotional demands on them. There isn't a "quick fix" always to this and there aren't guaranteed results. I wish you the best, as you do know that he loves you!