Abuse is any pattern of injurious behavior repeated despite the protests of the victim and her explicit requests to stop.
Preferring his family of origin to you can be injurious and, under certain circumstances - if done flagrantly and deliberaltely - is abusive.
My abusive ex boyfriend usually choose his family, especially his mother, over me in EVERYTHING!
He not only chose them, he also got them to hate me because they believed his lies. Oh, and of course, they were ALWAYS around when he (as only abusers know how to do because I wouldn't have the first clue) looked like the victim and I was the abusive one. Digusting really.
I guess it would really depend on what the partner is doing in these situations to fully answer your question.
I would think the answer is "yes" because when you are constantly denied your right to your opinion on how to "make it better" or to "make it stop", it eventually leads to violence. I have been married for 15 years to a man who was raised by a narcissistic father and co-narcissistic mother. All he could ever see was their side of everything or keeping the peace. They would start the problem and if I was upset they would begin another problem because of how I was feeling. They ruined every celebration we ever had. Our marriage was all about making them happy and meeting their needs on a daily basis. My husband and I never fought about the laundry, toothpaste or the kids (we have 3 sons). We only fought about his parents and I always had to have them in my life no matter how bad or how sick the situation they created was. Whenever we were invited to their home, I did not want to go (no right of refusal) and he would harass me, follow me around the house screaming and yelling at me because they were his parents and I did not respect them! Meanwhile, it was them who had no respect for their own family...only outsiders.
obviously for milk production for the young however it is also used in kinky situations say with your spouse or life partner or me?
spouse - marriage partner
A partner is considered next of kin only if they are a spouse. In the United States the order of precedence after spouse is children, parents, grandchildren, then siblings.
"Spouse" is a neutral word to identify the partner in a committed relationship, whether heterosexual or homosexual. So the lesbian equivalent of "spouse" is ... spouse.
groom, spouse, husband
Yes, a spouse can give medical history information about their partner with the partner's consent. It is important to respect the patient's privacy and confidentiality when sharing medical information.
It means partner husband/wife
Bride...........spouse, female life partner
A civil partner under English law is, for all intents and purposes a legal spouse, except that the words marriage and spouse do not legally apply for social, political and religious reasons.
A spouse or civil partner of a defendant is almost always considered a competent witness for either side, and may choose to testify for or against their spouse. A defendant may, when relevant, compel their spouse or civil partner to testify on their behalf. The prosecution however, may only compel the testimony of the defendant's spouse or civil partner in cases of domestic abuse or violence or sexual offences towards persons under 16. When the spouse or civil partner is a co-defendant to the charges, they may not be compelled to testify. ~wikipedia.org/wiki/Spousal_privilege
Divine Complement
The purpose of an innocent spouse relief tax is a form of protection and relief when one partner fails to report some of their income. It also covers one if a partner has claimed incorrectly.