If you never met a guy and you have been talking to him on the phone for almost four months now and he says he loves you is it true?

Answer 1

It Might or Might Not Be True

It might be true, but it may not be true.

I think it's easy to feel a intense attraction to someone you meet online. It can also fizzle out quickly upon meeting, because the romantic partner you have built up in your mind is not the same individual you meet in the flesh. They needn't have lied about their age, appearance or marital status for this to happen--the overall chemistry, physical and all, may not be there.

He may feel he 'loves' the qualities he knows about you--but you two haven't made the opportunity to meet in person and see if there is an actual attraction. Your contact has been limited to the internet and phone conversations--neither of you has seen how the other person acts in their day to day lives, you haven't spent long amounts of time together or met family or friends. The best way to determine if you want to pursue a relationship with him is to arrange to meet in person and spend a couple of days together.

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• For safety, remember to let someone know where you are. The first meetings should be relatively short and in a neutral location with people around. After a few meetings, you will know whether you have the trust to let him pick you up at home and so on. Until then, keep some privacy.

• If he thinks he loves you, why hasn't he met you?. Four months is a long time chatting on the phone. If he feels that strongly about you, he will or should jump at the chance. Arrange to meet him as soon as possible. If he chickens out, he's probably fake and possibly leading you on. And yes, there are men (and women) out there who do things like that.

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it might or might not be true. if you've never met this persone in your life they might be a child abuser, or criminal or something bad like that. if they are really convinced that they love you then you should arange a meeting somewhere where they can't stalk you to see if there is acctualy a chemistry between the two of you, wich is unlikely because you have never met this persone and you don't know how old they are or how they look or how they act in real life. for example, i met a girl online who claimed to be Emma watsone and i found out that she was just some imposter so take caution to who you 'love' and have realationships online.

I think that it is true:

i have the same situation as you i have known a guy for 5 months now and we realy love each other. im going to meet him soon. as long as you know him pretty well. i wouldn't trust anyone if i hadent seen them over webcam or spoke to any of their family and friends. but once you do this then i think you should trust him depending on his background and what sort of person he is. i think you will know if he is telling the truth. good luck hope everything goes well :).

It might be true....

you need to see him in person first though

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No

You can't love people when you've never met them. That's a gullible thing to think. You can like them, but love is a different story. Love is something that grows when people spent time _together_.

possible:

If you believe in the guy or girl they must prove it first , and after awhile it comes down to it and eventually both of you will decide to be together. No first moves till you are sure, the person who stays back home will always be lonely while the other one tries his or her best to make them happy, well in most TRUE relationships, but it is harder to leave back home than being lonely for a few weeks again. I wished my girlfriend would just stay with me where i live, and we would be happy. BUT always NEVER think that your BETTER than the other.