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Is it indirect abuse if you start hurting yourself because of the distressing things that your boyfriend says?
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∙ 8y ago
No, that is self abuse and manipulation of your boyfriend. You may have some sort of chemical imbalance that makes you want to hit and hurt yourself when under stress. You should go see a doctor and talk to them about this. It can probably be helped with some daily medications. You will feel a ton better and not want to hurt yourself, you'll be able to deal with stressfull things better.
"No, that is self abuse and manipulation of your boyfriend. You may have some sort of chemical imbalance that makes you want to hit and hurt yourself when under stress. You should go see a doctor and talk to them about this. It can probably be helped with some daily medications. You will feel a ton better and not want to hurt yourself, you'll be able to deal with stressfull things better."
While I agree that self abuse is a way of munipulating your boyfriend I disagree that it is all of your fault or that he is not to blame. People who are abused do attempt to hurt themselves and even commit suicide because they are made to feel by the abuser, that they are crazy or that eveything is their fault. People who are absued usually have very low self esteem and the abuse makes it worse.
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