Should you do something huge in public to show you like a girl such as announce in a dance that you like her a lot?

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Answer: I really think not, because it can be dangerous, if she doesn't likes you, or is not ready for anything. But I'm a girl, and I know that, if she likes you (you should be VERY sure of it) she's gonna love it, and love you. but some girls don't like it. it depends on the girlANSWER:Well it really does vary... I would personally be super embarrassed if a guy did that for me and I didn't feel the same... BUT if I was dating the guy or we were talking and were thinking about dating, then I would absolutely love it. Like the others said, you need to KNOW that she likes you the same. Most likely would be best if you actually date her and then do something like that. That way you could show her how you feel and you want everyone to know... but if she is still a question mark to you on if she likes you or not, then I would say wait till you know how she feels. Also it depends on the kind of girl she is... Does she seem like the type who is outgoing and doesn't get embarrassed easily? If so then something like that probably wouldn't phase her, but if she is shy and doesn't really like being in the spotlight, then it is a very bad idea... It could draw unwanted attention to her and you would probably drive her away, even if you did date her. There are a lot of things to consider before you do something like that.

-Nazyri

AnswerI would recommend against it. Public displays of affection are generally just embarrassing to both parties. AnswerNot a good idea, especially if you don't know her reaction before. Those types of announcements can be really disastrous if she gets embarrassed and shuts you down or if she doesn't feel the same way as you. It's possible to drive her away completely if you do something like that. If she doesn't like you the way you like her, it might embarrass both of you. Maybe you could try telling her when it's just you and her or less people around. I hope things go well with the two of you. AnswerFor me, just personally, I would love if a guy did that for me. Especially if I liked him. But even if I didn't it would be cool to know that someone likes me. But like the previous person said, you could embarrass her, maybe tell her when it's just you and her, or just when her friends are around, but not the whole grade. AnswerI personally would be very embarrassed if someone did that to me, even if I had a crush on them, so it is obvious that it really varies. AnswerNOOOOO, don't do that, unless you know FOR SURE, without a doubt, that she likes you back. That could DEFINITELY backfire; you could embarrass the heck out of her, or she could turn you down right there in front of everyone. Plus, it's a lot sweeter and adorable when a guy gets you alone and tells you that he likes you, or asks you on a date. Just do it privately, spare yourself.

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Despite your good intentions, I would find that embarrassing if I were her whether I liked you a lot or not. Girls (generally) don't need a huge sign to show you care; little details like just being sweet and caring mean more.

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im a girl, and NO, NO, NO AND NO!!!!!!! it has to be sweet and subtle. drop a few hints first, and if she doesn't respond, tell her you need to talk to her in private and tell her then. the last thing i would want is everyone staring at me and me going red and not knowing what to say. GLAD 2 HELP!!! ;]

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i would rather be in a seprate space from the public!

Whoa!How would you feel if someone did that to you? I don't know what you're like but I would die, even if I really liked the guy. Imagine if she doesn't like you. I was once at a hockey game and a guy proposed and she turned him down. It was quite embarrassing. And I'm sure it made her feel like a huge jerk. It just depends on what kind of girl she is.