To be honest, if it was the first one, you should give him another chance, and if it doesn't work out again, then just ditch him.
Also if the affair happened early out in the marriage (1-5 Years of being Married/Together) then I personally think that he would most likely do it again.
no. no affairs should be ignored. if he is having an affair with another women then that is unsuitable and should be resolved
Ignore him.
Having an affair can be emotionally devastating for one's spouse. So, it is not surprising that a person's spouse would ignore them after they learned of an affair. To make a marriage work following infidelity, both parties need to be willing to work it out, and they should likely attend couple's therapy.
* It might be best to ignore it, after all, it may not be true! * I think you it would be a great place to start after all you responded to her husband. You might learn what a greaseball your "boyfriend" is.
Women by nature are jealous of the other woman so they have a tendency to blame the mistress in the affair and even when the mistress harasses the wife, but it is the husband in this case that should stop the harassment because he started it all. Get tough with the husband and ignore the mistress; the ball is in his court.
say ignore them if they do it again
I believe the question is, how do you not ignore it? If your husband is having an affair, do not just pretend like it's not happening. Do something about it. Tell somebody. If you love him very much, the best thing to do is talk to him about it. If that action has already been taken and he's still not obeying, don't stay with him. As hard as it seems, it'd be for the better. The one thing you should not do, however, is use violence as a reference. Keep calm at all times. It's not right to ignore something that should be brought to attention. I hope I helped. If the answer didn't help contact me at lexnbaz@gmail.com. -TheLoveGuruGal
you could believe him and ask about it or you could just ignore it!
if it going on against you ignore it. if your in it have fun
If you're asking yourself whether you could have pushed your husband to have an affair with a married woman, the answer is "no." You simply do not have that power. Instead, it was a series of poor choices your husband made that most likely led to the affair. For instance, he decided to look outside the marriage for something he apparently needed. He decided to have an affair. He decided to ignore the marital vows of both your marriage, and those of the married couple's wife whom he had an affair with. So in short, don't blame yourself for your husband's behavior. He's not a child, and you are not responsible for his actions. That said, marital discord is very rarely, if ever, a single sided occurrence. Both parties are responsible for the maintenance of the marriage.
No, a wife is not a fool for wishing at Christmas that she could get her husband back after an affair. If your husband has never cheated before and you have taken him back then realize people are only human and make mistakes and you need to determine if you think your husband feels guilty for having the affair and if not, then it is best you either stay away from him or file for at least a separation. If you are not with your husband then take the time to really think about your marriage and whether you were truly happy throughout that marriage. Nine chances out of ten you were not, but like many married couples one or both spouses may simply ignore how they feel and continue on with a loveless marriage because it is too much work or too fearful a prospect to come to the realization it is time to divorce. There is life after being married and many nice men out there looking for a great lady to have a relationship with. It could be the beginning of the rest of your life.
You could just not let it happen. Neither partner should over rule the other, and if she is doing that then just ignore her. People should not treat one another like that, especially husband and wife.