All you can do is be straight forward and honest - tell him exactly how you feel and what you would like to see happen between you two. As well, do so without the begging, crying, drama and neediness as guys do not like this. If he still decides he does not want to be with you then you are going to have to make peace with this somehow especially for your child. He is going to be a part of your life and your going to have to let him go and let him be in the relationship manner and be adult enough to have a relationship that involves communcation and compromise for your child's sake - that is the most important thing at this point. You have to strive forward and pull yourself together for your baby as well as for yourself. Unfortunately people do breakup and you can get through this, take time for yourself and get by this think of all the prospects for your future and focus on your motherhood and happiness. Trust me things do and will get better.
well basically he still wants to fix things and all so the baby can grow up and not have his parents fighting and hating each other, he doesnt have to be in a relationship he just wants to fix everything and still be in yours and the baby's life
No one has to. the paternal father should still support or help however unless he wants to give up all rights.
you just say honey you are not the father of my baby and i'mso sorry your not but you can still take care of it
Yes.
yes they both have to agree on the terns
Obviously he does not, or he would not be disrespecting you and taking chances with your health by seeing someone else. You are being used.
no but it would save you from a guilty mind
Get a lawyer right away!
babybecause you are American the baby will have dual citizenship, you shouldn't have a problem unless the father wants custody or visitation rights etc, while he is in Canada
If she wants to.
If you are unmarried and the father of your child wants nothing to do with the baby then you can give the baby your last name and be sure to register your baby's full name (including the surname ... last name.)
Yes, he is still the father. If you were married to the boyfriend and he adopted the baby you would still have to get the father to sign away his rights.