What do you do when your husband argues with almost everything anyone says especially you and then he can be the most giving person ever how much more can you take being verbally yelled at as well.?

Answer 1

There is a huge difference between being chronically argumentative or contentious and being abusive. The former is just a bad habit or, at most, a character flaw that can be corrected. The latter is far more serious a problem. If he is merely disagreeable, you'll have to point it out to him, but not while you are arguing. That may get you nowhere at first, because he's likely to disagree with you, since that's what he does. But if you persist, he may cave. But constant verbal abuse is another kettle of fish. If he is constantly berating you and degrading you verbally, then you may have to seek professional help or perhaps the counseling of clergy. Since it's not likely that he will go happily to counseling, you may have to take the drastic step of packing your bag and moving out of the house for a while, to a friend's or family member's house, to show him that you mean business about getting professional help.