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What effect does it have on the abuser when the abused partner leaves Just wondering what to expect Thanks?
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* Abusive behavior can be part of that person's environment growing up, or it can be a learned behavior when the person is out on their own and life throws them some curves and they lack confidence and feel they are failures, or, in some cases that abusive person can simply be mean to the bone. Abusive men (or women) need a victim to either verbally or physically abuse in order for them to make themselves feel more powerful and in control. Abusers need control in their lives and will go to any length to get it. In this case (good for you for having the courage to leave) he may bother you to some extent because 'you are the one that got away' or he may limp off and find another victim. With abusive people they will always seek out another victim to abuse and it has nothing to do with love. It is highly suggested that you be careful and be sure he does not stalk or bother you at home, work or wherever you are and for the next few months it's a good idea to be with another person (such as a girlfriend) and be aware of your surroundings until you are certain he has moved on. You should consider seeking help from programs at the Abused Women's Center to help you cope with what you have been through. Although you may feel free of the hell you have been through verbal or physical abuse (or both) leaves deep scars and these programs give you the tools to cope with past memories and how to handle any problems you may have with your ex partner as well as learning the signs of abusive men that you may date in the future and to know you have the strength to be independent without a man around.
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Can a man from non-abusive upbringing become an abuser if abused by a partner who grew up in an abusive home with no therapy at all?
it is possible
When a spouse is abused does the abuser use weapons?
Sometimes they do, yes.
Can domestic abuse and Stockholm Syndrome collide Meaning can feeling guilty while being abused be called Stockholm Syndrome?
An abused person can identify with their abuser. The abuse itself would not be called Stockholm Syndrome. How the abused feels about the abuser would be Stockholm Syndrome.
When a abused person leaves and the abuser goes straight into another relationship will the abuser still try to get back at them?
I have been abused by my so called husband and when i left, till today he has never tryied to even call.
Why do people stay in abusive relationship?
Several different reasons. One could be because the abuser has such a hold on the abused that they stay because they think that the abuser is the only person that will want them. There is also fear that if the abused left the abuser would hunt them down and make them pay for leaving in the first place. If you asked 10 different abused people why they stay (stayed) in they're abusive relationships I can almost promise you'll get 10 different answers. In some cases the abused person believes that she/he can fix the abuser, or for complex reasons might even feel guilt about leaving the abuser.
If a man is founded as a child abuser and your child is the one he abused but is not the father of the abused child but is of your unborn child does he have rights to the unborn baby?
A court would never award custody or visitation rights to a convicted child abuser.
How can you have a relationship with a narcissist without feeling abused?
. You couldn't (improve on last answer, or have a relationship with a Narcissist without feeling abused).You cannot have a relationship with an abuser without feeling abused.
What happens to an abuser after the partner leave?
Who cares. They sure don't.
Will my boyfriend be an abuser if he yells at his mom?
Answer:The Boyfriend might become an abuser, but in the long run he will learn from his mistakes and i believe no, he will not become an abuser, if you feel like your being abused walk away =3
What is the noun of the word abused?
The word abused is the past tense of the verb to abuse. The noun forms for the verb are abuse, abuser, and the gerund, abusing.
What factors might play a role in the partner's decision to stay when abused?
They could have been depending on the abuser for financial support. They might have children together or own property together. Their family might have left them to fend for themselves. p
How do you reason with an abuser?
Reasoning with an abuser is not something the abused person should probably try. Most abusers are very good at manipulation. If you try to discuss it with them, you may be disappointed and become more hurt and angry. If they are an abuser, they already know it, but do not expect them to admit it.Rather then reason with them, you should talk to someone that you trust about it. It might be hard to admit to someone that you are being abused, but it is better to face your fear by reaching out to someone then continuing to be abused.
