What should you do if you have a huge crush on a celebrity?

Answer 1

ANSWER

Your crush is based on what they want you to see and what their promoters want you to see (buy). You will never see the real person. They want you to see the poster image so you will follow thousands/millions of others and buy their CD, movie, perfume etc.

Don't feel too bad about yourself because of it, this is all psychologically designed and these people have psychology experts on hand for this; they people know what they are doing.

Realizing that they are actually lying to you and everyone else all for money shows you just what kind of person they REALLY are. Know that you will never actually get the truth out of a celebrity on a camera, or in a magazine

The person you think you see is just a persona, its not real, its the 'them' they wish they were, confident, funny, sweet, nice, helpful, caring. They are humans just like the rest of us; the real 'them' is shown more in the pictures they don't like you seeing, and there is a reason for that!

Take control of the situation and your life as much as you are able to and you will find you certainly feel better, it may not cure this crush, but it will help you in the long run. Also know that fantasizing about celebrity's is all fine and healthy as long as it doesn't interfere in your real life, that's when you need to think seriously about your life and whats wrong and what your doing about it.

OTHER ANSWER THAT'S NOT A COMPLETE BUMMER.

It depends on what you mean by "crush". If you mean his or her appearance and stage persona, then yes, the above answer is absolutely true. However, if you mean that you actually have a serious connection and have stalked their interviews/info quite a bit, it means you have an obsession and might or might not really like them on a deeper level than the surface. If you think option 2 is the case, please consider reading further.

Ask yourself, "Is this the first time I've "loved" a celebrity? Do I have a crush on more than one popular icon?" If the answer to any of those questions is yes, then chances are whatever you think might happen is never going to happen anywhere other than in your imagination. Sorry to be a hope-killer, but that's life kiddo.

If this is the first time you've felt such a strong attraction for a celebrity, check yourself. How old are you? If you answer with something between the ages of 5-16, there's a good possibility that it's just naivety or hormones. However, before solely marking yourself in that area, consider your maturity level.

Do you often think of highly intellectual things that you doubt others have thought of before? {if you range from 5-16} Do you have a somewhat clear image in your head of what you want to be when you grow up {that doesn't revolve entirely around 'being famous'/princess/burger flipper}? Is your wall lacking of celebrity figures? If you answered yes to all of those questions, your maturity level is pretty high. Or you're a liar. Heh.

Also, you should take into consideration that they are human like the rest of us, and are in no way immortal gods of perfection. Think about it. If they weren't famous, would you really adore them as much as you do now?

The next to last thing to think about is your compatibility with the other. No, no, not those ridiculous name or birthday compatibility calculators, but your true chemistry. Does the person share a large amount of common interests with you? Have you ever liked anyone with a similar personality to them? Do you think they would honestly be interested in you? And, if the celebrity has ever described what they're looking for in a partner without joking, do you match their description?

I hope you answered yes to all of those questions without lying to yourself, so that I can tell you there is the smallest chance of you ever ending up with them. What would be even better if you answered yes to the last question: Is there a strong likelihood that you will ever encounter this person face-to-face? Because if you answered yes to this, the chances of you being with them doubled. Yay for you~! But don't believe everything I say...

After all, I'm just a regular person with access to the internet. But, I can tell you that in my head, I was dead serious about this.

Answer 2

I think you should just keep that love alive! You can like another boy,and still love your popstar!! For example, my best friend is in LOVE with Bill Kaulitz from Tokio Hotel and she likes otherguys but is OBSESSED with him. Anyways, you should totally go for him/her!! ... that's easy ... just find something NOT to like them by!!! ... ie ... something bad that you don't know ... you'll get over them fast enough! ... just take a look around ... there are plenty of decent guys/girls in the world!!!

Answer 3

Nothing. Just because that person is famous doesn't mean he or she won't like you the same way. Its not about what you are, it's about who you are and if your not yourself, expect him or she to not love you. Also, try to have a long period relationship first before you tell them.

Answer 4

Of course it is.