Well im in the same situation. My best friend happens to be a boy, and over time i have fell for him and we have become alot closer also. The sad thing is, he has a million girls chasing him all the time and it kills me having to see him with them and then listen to him talking about them, while i sit there and the jeaoulsy overwhelms me.
The best advice i can give to you and what i have personally done is: TO BE HIS NUMBER ONE SUPPORTER TO KEEP HIM CLOSE. SMILE AND TELL HIM YOU ARE HAPPY FOR HIM AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THERE TO SUPPORT HIS DECISIONS AND ALWAYS LISTEN WITHOUT BAGGING OUT HIS GIRL...IF ANYTHING TRY AND GET ON HER GOOD SIDE TOO AND MAKE OUT THAT YOU REALLY LIKE HER :):)
God, i know its hard, ive spent a long time crying over this and trying to find answers, so its nice to know your in the same postition. Goodluck Hun :)
Well, it depends on if you like your girlfriend, if your best friend is a girl, then trust me she should like you back.
Grow up, please. If you like your best friend, you don't love your girlfriend. You girlfriend cheating on you is not reason or justification for you to do it back. You didn't like being cheated on, did you? So why would you do it back? You obviously forgave her & tolerated it. If you can't, LEAVE YOUR GIRLFRIEND. Do not go out with your best friend if you're not single.
MAYBE YOU SHOULD IGNORE..
if your girlfriend AND your best friend turned on you- wow- that must hurt
I asked the same exact question and the answer is no... You would be a bad friend if you acted on this...
well the question you should ask yourself is, who do i like more, who am i willing to lose? if u just met your girlfriend, but have known your best friend for a while, its a no brainer, who you should pick, but it all depends on who each person is to you.
Forget him
and also to add from the question above he has told you he does not really like his girlfriend
you need to tell your best friend that you do not like them that way.
Ask them to be your boyfriend/girlfriend (i dunno which gender you are so...)
make a compromise with her (if there was any problem bw u 2) and get close to her
you should usuallly stay on your girlfriend's side but not in front of her friend you should like pull her off on the side and say i believe you and everything a girl would want to hear