Cheating is cheating no matter where it occurs and (with proof or uncontested) is still a legal cause for divorce. Abandonment is a different issue, particularly if your husband was in military service in Iraq. If the abandonment happened when he came back, that is another story.
The best way to get money from a cheating husband in court is to document what he did and present the information to the court during the divorce process.
It is doubtful you could get court order because of cheating. There may be circumstances during a divorce where a judge might grant such a thing.
The husband and wife were having an argument about household finances. The lawyer presented his argument to the appeals court.
It's not required under the CS guidelines, but is an option under a Rebuttable Presumption Argument. But, the use of that argument can swing both ways. see links
It is not meant in the usual meaning of the word. It simply means to present your side of the "argument" to the court. Both you and the oppoosing side of "the argument" present your cases to the court and the judge (or the jury) decide, according to the law, which person "wins" the "argument."
in the Dissent
A case is tried in court.
Both explain the basis for an argument.
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Ask her. Dont go through her messages, emails, etc. because if you get taken to court that can be held against you. or if neccasary. have a spy i guess. like a friend do some dirt for ya.
Make your argument to the court.