Why He cheated on her with me then cheated on me with someone else?
Blokes cheat with whoever they have access to. Surprisingly, many male cheaters are not very picky with women they cheat with, frequently cheating with women that are way below the status of their current girlfriend in looks and intelligence. Sometimes men cheat simply because there's an opportunity. Typically they are commitment phobes who only care about "fun", guys with low self esteem, or guys who are just down right miserable... Or all of the above...
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Answer . \nThis guy needs a smack in the face of reality! What goes around comes around. "EX" means just that and he no longer has ANY say in what his girlfriend does or whom she sees. Why should she care? She should move on and quit worrying about what her ex thinks. She is now dubbed "a f…ree spirit!"\n. \nMarcy. Answer . Absolutely NOT!! Tell him he has no right to dictate who you speak to, or even who you date!!! HE cheated, you are moving on which is good, and if he tries interefering I would tell him he needs to stop obsessing and move on. This is for the best as he is being totally unresonable. (MORE)
If you are dating someone and you have a fight and kinda break up and you see someone else and have sex with them is this cheating?
Answer . You either broke-up or you didn't. Many people have arguements, but it doesn't mean the relationship is over. If you truly feel it was a break-up (you didn't speak or see each other for several weeks) then no, it's not cheating.
Why does your boyfriend watch ever move you make and think you are cheating or looking at someone else?
Just look at this way, his probably having issue when it comes on trusting people. Did you ever talk to him about his past. His probably got hurt by someone that left him injured. A man is different when they mistrust people. Why don't you just assure him by telling him how much you love him. And ke…ep telling him that you will never betrayed him. I hope this help, don't loose your faith sweetie. (MORE)
Answer . Guys like that may very well want a gullible woman around for appearance's sake, for her money, or to fool everyone including himself into thinking he's reliable and respectable. Let him go; move on. You deserve better. . Answer . Answer. He does this because he does not have a to…tal commitment to you and thinks he can have his cake and eat it too. However, it sounds like you don't agree with this, and so you need to set your boundaries. His values don't seem to match yours, and until they do, your chances of a happy, longterm relationship are slim. (MORE)
There is nothing called cheating. We make a template of situation, person or our own selves and if something does not fit into that sooner or later or rather never, then we terms it as cheating.
How or where do you hire someone to lie over the phone to someone else. Guy I dated is cheating on his new girlfriend and I have a plan to expose him?
Answer . This is not something that is "hired" out. If you are not willing to do this yourself, it is not worth doing at all. Leave the guy alone - you aren't dating him anymore, so it is no skin off your nose what he does or doesn't do. Eventually girls will figure this guy out and he will get w…hat he deserves. (MORE)
1. Don't 2. B honest (if u have the guts) 3. If she finds out you're either way done for.... Pretty much what he/she said . . . . since being brutally honest with her is the best way to go about this. As hard it is going to be, don't water it down or make it seem innocent or like you're the …victim, as that won't work either. Just be a guy about it, and tell the most bluntest way you can, as it will be over quicker that way, as at least you aren't trying to hide it at all, which is always the worse choice. (MORE)
If it was in a romantic way then yes it does count as cheating. If it was just a friendly peck then you're fine.
I had the same question and i dont really think it is as long as the other person doesnt find out! Yes because if its a secret then its cheating It is cheating, but having sex would be, like, FULL cheating. Know what I mean? Everything has different degrees of cheating. It is cheating, as long as …it's something you don't want them (your own partner) to be doing. So an open relationship isn't cheating. (MORE)
well, i guess all you have to do is tell the person being cheated that someone's making him/her a fool..
What does the word "cheat" mean? It means to defraud, swindle, or deceive; to act dishonestly. Does that sound okay to you?
Why doesn't my boyfriend initiate sex with me and does it mean he is cheating on me with someone else?
No, but... No, it doesn't. It could mean that he wants to save his virginity for the right girl. Yes, that sentence may hurt, but wouldn't it hurt you to know you lost yours to someone you wouldn't marry? No, but... (2) No, but it could be because has has had sex with a previous relationshi…p and thinks it would be a mistake. He doesn't want to ruin a good relationship with you and wants it to last. Advice. Flat out ask him if he's cheating on you. Most will confess. You could also do some digging yourself. Is there one girl who has that "sparkle" that would make you think he has? Do his friends know a secret about him that you don't know? It's hard to tell with us guys, but the best answer I can give is to ask. (MORE)
It's called forgiveness, But then you have cheated on him/her too, by the mind desire of having seen anyone else, and wishing you could make love, have sex,with them. Isn't that cheatting too?. It's called forgiveness, But then you have cheated on him/her too, by the mind desire of having seen anyo…ne else, and wishing you could make love, have sex,with them. Isn't that cheatting too? (MORE)
If your married and having an affair and you see someone else is it cheating on your partner to which you are having the affair with?
No you are just cheating yourself really, forget about the other people, you are desperately seeking help within. These people are just demonstrating an existential part of yourself. You have to make up your mind, you must be living a I never got to do this before affair, or you are being indulgent.… Besides that, if you are married cheating is wrong, however only if there is a reason it occured, but cheating again, there is something wrong with that. IF you are doing it for pleasure then it is understandable, but you are hurting the other person involved. (MORE)
That depends if you want to risk your answers being wrong because, why would the other kid cheat on you if he already has the answers. . Cheating is as low as a snake's belly and portrays the cheater as being self indulgent; void of their mate's feelings and they are self centered. They have brok…en the bond of trust which they can never get back from their mate. To cheat to pay them back simply lowers you to their level. The best thing to do is kick this useless piece of hide out the door and move on with your own life. Have respect for yourself and be strong and you'll find the person that you really should be with. Cheaters always end up losing! P.S Two wrongs don't make a right (MORE)
If you truly love someone and have desires for someone else is it better to break up and stay friends than it is to cheat?
Yes. My god yes. Turn the situation around. If the one you trully loved loved someone else, and decided to cheat- HOW WOULD YOU FEEL?. Sometimes in life we face certain points where our heart goes the opposite direction. Its about being the right person and not letting peope get hurt more than they… should.. This person is going to get MORE hurt if you cheat on them then if you don't think up a strategy to break up with them.. Break up then do your thing. Do it nicely though. Don't be a jerk. (MORE)
What if your guy cheats on someone else and tells you why Is it possible for him to cheat on you too?
If your guy is telling you excuses to why he's cheated before it's very likely he'd do it again. If he seems to have no hard feelings against cheating than the likely hood of him doing the same to you would be high. Unlike the typical man, some men do honestly feel bad for what they do while the maj…ority are just looking to "get some". If he is serious about your relationship i think you should feel comfortable enough to talk to him about the situation and ask if he would ever do that to you.. good luck!. If your guy is telling you excuses to why he's cheated before it's very likely he'd do it again. If he seems to have no hard feelings against cheating than the likely hood of him doing the same to you would be high. Unlike the typical man, some men do honestly feel bad for what they do while the majority are just looking to "get some". If he is serious about your relationship i think you should feel comfortable enough to talk to him about the situation and ask if he would ever do that to you.. good luck! (MORE)
Not cheating but it does tell you something about your relationship. If you feel the need to flirt with another guy, You are not entirely happy with your current partner. If it's more affection, Compliments or to feel sexy, Your partner is not giving you what you need. Another view: That depends on …what the boyfriend thinks. Cheating is a kind of dishonest dealings. If the boyfriend knows a girl or woman likes to flirt just for fun and still wants to be her boyfriend, there is no dishonesty in that relationship and hence no cheating. (But as stated above, it may be a different kind of problem.) However if she flirts with others while allowing her boyfriend to believe she would never flirt with anyone but him, that is dishonest and is thus a kind of cheating. \n. Agreed. (MORE)
A: hire the cheaters show to find out. B: cheat on them. C: break up. D: forgive and forget. E: Call him and record the lies. F: Hang out with your friends more than him to make him feel bad
She might be cheating on you., but you can't know. The guy maybe just asked her to dance, and because she wanted to be polite, and accepted. If it's not a slow dance, then it might not mean anything. Even if it was a slow dance, there are some chances that she isn't cheating on you. You can't exactl…y know. (MORE)
I personally would not define "liking" someone else while you are seeing someone as cheating, however, it is most definitely not faithful. A guy at my work says this about cheating: "if you would not do it with your boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse in the room, it's cheating." For example: Kissing If …you would not kiss that person with the person you are seeing in the room it's cheating. Another example could be less drastic: Holding hands. If you would not hold hands with that person with the person you are dating in the room then it is cheating. (MORE)
Oh yeah. I would consider it cheating. It's oral "SEX." It's an intimate thing to do, and it's for sure cheating!!!
What do you when you and your boyfriend are on a break and you sleep with someone else We were broken up but I feel like I was cheating on him and I want to tell him about it. Is it cheating or not?
You say that you were broken up, so that means that you two were not close after that. Was sleeping with someone else an act against him in any way?. You probably needed to talk about that kind of thing before taking the break from each other. If you truly intended to get back together then havin…g sex with someone else probably is cheating; you wouldn't have done it if you loved him to the full.. However having said that, you were on a break for a reason. You obviously care enough about him that you thought you cheated on him, while you weren't even officially together. The best solution is just to tell him, but that you know it was a bad idea and that you are ready to be with him again. (MORE)
If you and your wife have been separated for five months is it considered cheating if you sleep with someone else?
If you are legally separated then no, you are not cheating by sleeping with someone else, but remember ... she could be doing the same thing.
Only if you do something about it. If it's really bothering you, you might want to talk to a counselor on your own, to help you sort through your feelings.
A dare is something that you do voluntarily. So, by voluntarily kissing someone else, you have cheated.
What should you do if your boyfriend finds that a message from someone else and thinks that you 're cheating?
this is one thing that does happen quite often and usually people get struck by being nervous and then it looks real, but the key is to reasure him you didnt do it, if he trusts you he will understand. also it is good to have all the people texting you named like for example : (friend-jhon, boyfrien…d-jack) if this doesnt help I am sorry but the key IS A GOOD RELATIONSHIP SO HE TRUSTS YOU IF HE DOESNT TRUST YOU HE WILL DUMP YOU. (MORE)
You move away and you think your girlfriend is cheating but you are still together then you found proof shes cheating but you still dont believe it then she tells you she is in love with someone else?
If you found proof that she's already seeing another guy, there's no use in feeling sympathy for her. she doesn't deserve you if she's willing to give you up. don't beat yourself up over it. the only thing that can heal you is time. i know how it feels to be cheated on. not the best feeling in the w…orld, is it?? I'm sorry that this happened to you. In my opinion, i don't think you should forgive her. My friend was dating this girl, and she cheated on him, and then they got back together. i think its a horrible mistake to get back with someone who cheated on you. If they do it once, no doubt their going to do it again. I'm never going to forgive the person who cheated on my best friend. you should think about it though. it depends on how close your relationship is with this person. I think you should find someone else that will make you happier than this person. have a new beginning, and basically just start over. That's all i can tell you. (MORE)
Promise yourself you won't do it again. Prepare properly. Everyone almost has cheated at one stage. The magic is in moving on and growing.
Yes you can but that does not mean you should.ANSWER:Yes I can and would love to do it, if my boyfriend, husband, or just a partner do not make time for me.
You can't control your feelings, but you can control what you do with them. The only way it is cheating is if you two are seeing each other behind your boyfriend/girlfriend's back or if you are having any kind of physical relationship with each other. You really do need to decide who you want to be …with though. It's not fair to drag your bf/gf along while you're still deciding whether or not you still love them. A: Cheating? in a way it is, but your having an emotional feelings in the heart, and that's the worst one ever if you don't stop. Why not tell this person you are with, so that way no one will be a looser. Do not be between those two or else you will loose a lot. (MORE)
Start to become distant from them , dont give them the attention they want and eventually they will find someone else to get it from.
Rumors have to start somewhere. My suggestion is to go straight to the source - the person accused of cheating - and simply ask. This doesn't have to be a tense, angry accusation, but rather a relaxed conversation, such as "So, I heard a rumor and I was wondering... what's going on?" Read their bod…y language. Are they avoiding your eyes? That could be a danger sign. In the end, it depends on how much you trust the person. If they have cheated before, either on you or another, then there is always a good chance they'll do it again. A good relationship is built on trust. Work to build that. (MORE)
You should NOT being cheating on anyone. The above is correct. Stop now. Either with the "other" or the "spouse".
first of all that's absolutely wrong!! you fiancee has an extreme condition and you slept with another man, this does count as cheating but whether you feel guilty or not depends on the reason why you did it.
When someone cheats on you they have broken the bond of trust and if you are wise you would not want this person back in your life. By cheating they are letting you know they do not respect you; are selfish and self absorbed and they are only interested in their own feelings and not of how you feel.… Be wise and kick this person out of your life and realize that there is a much better person out there for you that you deserve if you allow it to happen. Get out with friends and socialize and start dating again. (MORE)
Anyone that has to reduce themselves by trying to get someone to cheat on their mate is extremely immature and vengeful and certainly has no self esteem. If one has high esteem and loves the person but they are with someone else they move on and if they are meant to be with that person it will happe…n in the future and if it does not happen then it was never meant to be. (MORE)
The sooner the better. Own up and be responsible for your actions like a real man should. We all make mistakes but we all need to be responsible individules. No man is an island. What we do affects others and the sooner we tell the truth the better for all involved. Take it like a man man.
By "cheats" i will assume that you mean it in the form of them breaking a vow of commitment to someone, probably you in this case. My personal belief is that you are probably insecure with the faithfulness of this individual, you are probably afraid that you will lose them or you are uncertain of th…eir love and devotion to you. well hey listen closely, they married you right. that has to mean something, and if you two aren't married and are BF GF still theirs a commitment, and remember if someone cheats, they are only cheating themselves for a hallow heart hurts worse than a broken one for there is no love in an empty heart, not for ones self nor for any other. (MORE)
Okay guys lets be more blunt and honest here when answering this question. In my own opinion, one way that you can tell if this person is cheating is by his or her action. Watch and pay attention to everything he or she is doing and saying. If this person is cheating, he or she will be uncomforta…ble around you. When he or she talk, he will be more careful so what ever is going on behind your back will not be given away. People who do cheat will act and talk funny because they don't want to get caught. If they are not a talkative person with you and all of a sudden loves to talk, that will be one sign. What you need to do is pay attention to everything he or she do. But I think it will be much better if you talk to this person who you think is cheating on you. This is the only way that you can find out if something is going on. (MORE)
Well, it should be known by the way that person acts around the other person that you are lead to believe that they are cheating on. Make sure that you don't just accuse them, especially without facts to back it up. Plus, don't let your only fact be that they are acting differently, because that …can mean quite a few other things. Overall, hope it works out for you. (MORE)
If you're in a relationship yes , if you have a bf/gf why should you be liking someone else ?
Say that you will give them 1 more chance if it happens again it's over
I think it's up to what kind of texting the person is sending to the other person. We will never know unless we saw the text and read them. So I think it's better if you ask this person so that way, what ever comes out will not be such a big issue, agree?
There is never a good way to tell someone you have cheated on them and although one can run a high risk of losing that someone by telling them the truth honesty is still the best policy. Try to express why you cheated and that you will never do it again. Humans are not perfect and we all make mistak…es. Sit down one quiet evening or go for a walk together and tell them you love them enough to be honest and that is when you let them know you have cheated, but be sure to let them know you have learned your lesson and it will never happen again (mean it) and that you made a foolish mistakes. (MORE)
not necessarily... if you have an open relationship, then no but if u dont then yeah.
no, in my mind, cheating is doing something you would normally do with your G/BF with someone else and leaving your G/BF out of it
ANSWER: Afraid not, we all have the rights to like someone who are nice to us. We all have 5 senses and what you are feelings is attraction that comes from our heart. Now if this person you like is single you are safe as long as you are single. But if you are married and this person is single, your… still safe as long as the two of you never cross that path of distraction. Liking someone is not a sin nor cheating, as long as you can put some distance. (MORE)
You obviously have some knowledge that your boyfriend may well cheat on you. However, some young women are jealous and may feel their boyfriend is cheating because they may have heard from one or more of their girlfriends that their boyfriends have cheated leaving you feeling vulnerable and therefor…e you are suspicious of your boyfriend. He may well not be cheating on you at all and if you don't catch him red handed there isn't much you can do about it. If he is innocent then his statement that he knows someone else who is cheating could very well be true and you should have asked who it was and this will give you the opportunity to tell him you ever caught him cheating that you would break up with him for good. (MORE)
OK so heres what you do when i found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me i left him because #1 it showed me that i couldn't trust him #2 and that i can do way better with my life than have that 1 guy ruin my life forever but also i have found that if you forgive him he thinks that he will b…e of the hook and continue to do it because hes going to assume you just don't really care because he thinks that you wont dump him either way (MORE)