Why do Mothers annoy their kids?

Answer 1

Well, to get a really good answer on this one, you would have to tell us the nature of the nagging.

However, I would say in most cases that parents 'nag' kids because they want to understand them and be part of their lives, but don't know exactly how to go about it. They want to have a good relationship with their kids, but they still have to maintain the role of parent so that they can protect kids from harm as well.

Sometimes parents nag about chores just to get them done... but there could be a deeper meaning... the need to teach responsibility.

Sometimes parents nag with questions about friends and activities because they distrust... but probably more often, they do it because they want to know what is going on with you, and they want you to be safe.

Some people just have a tendency to nag... but usually, if you reassure the person that you will get something done, or that you will be safe, and confront the issue directly... then the nagging might at least lessen. You can't remove a parent's concern for his child, but if you reassure the parent that you have thought it through, or that you will get it done at a certain time, that is a lot better than not addressing the issue at all. That can only lead to more nagging. :)

Parents nag you because they love you. You'd be able to stop the nagging when you move out though. :D

When it comes to raising children parents are suppose to give them a set of social skills to carry them into their adult years; but after the age of 18 or 22; which ever comes first; parents need to stay the hell out of their children's descions when choosing a mate, political, or responsible decisions about their life; as long as the child is taken care of his/her business like responsible adults should. Parents don't have to like it, but they should respect them as adults when they reach that age, and have the education to succeed in life.

Answer 2

We have no choice but to repeat ourselves when our children choose what to hear and therefor ignore doing what we ask of them. We are not fooled though which is why we persist to teach our children that in this house we have no maid so you have to do certain things by yourself.

Answer 3

They're annoying because they think that they are smarter and that your just a kid.

• Parents are annoying because their children are annoying them! Teens especially should sometimes stop and look at their parents as just a man and a woman. They have problems, fears, illness' and a whole lot of worries at times. Most parents love their children and strive to do the very best for them and that's a tall and serious order to fulfill. It's true that children will never understand their parents until they become older or have children of their own. Communication should be one of the top factors in a family where parent or child can sit down and talk out any problems that may occur. Respect is earned and that includes the parents respecting their child. So, start communicating, don't be cheeky and by communicating perhaps you will get to know your parents as just people and not just as your parents.

• Parents are annoying because they don't understand children

• Because they care. If they didn't care, and let you do whatever you wanted, then how would you expect to be sucessful in your future? Without them nagging, and telling you to clean your room, or do your homework, or feed the cat, then how do you expect to have any sence of responcibility. Yes, they can be quite annoying, but there annoying, and naggy because they care. :]

Answer 4

parents annoy teenagers because their hormones are telling them to do one thing. they want to show you that they can do things themselves. they get annoyed if you keep asking questions. you just have to learn to accept that. they are going through some tough times. k?

Answer 5

because they have nothing better to do other than make teenagers and kids hate them. they enjoy reminding us that we are incompetant in doing our stuff and need constant reminding about everything we do. (involving productive things of course. They NEVER find the time to nag at us about stuff we want to do

Answer 6

Mothers around the world nag because their children have simply learned that they can ignore their mother and get away with it. Any effective mother with obedient children will tell you that requests (please take out the garbage), orders (such as "Stop!" because a young child is too near a busy street), or any other such comment will require follow-up if the child(ren) does not follow instructions.

When telling a child to pick up the toys, a mother cannot simply leave the room in hopes that (s)he will happily pick up the toys. That does not happen. The child(ren) must be taught/trained to do what is asked PLUS, at any future time, the mother may very well have to go back to physically directing a young child's actions...even to the grasping of the child's hand, placing it on the toy, assisting the child to his/her feet, walk with them to the toy box, and dropping the toy into it...and then either continue to work WITH the child or, if the child is older, then staying and overseeing that the chore is completed to her satisfaction. The mother's responsibility does NOT end at simply "telling" the child what needs to be done. Followup is EVERYTHING until they are old enough to know and follow their mother's wishes!

Being a mother is an extremely 'HARD,' 'tedious,' 'demanding of patience' job filled with long hours of back-breaking movements occasionally filled with tears, anger, obstinance, and/or screams of "I HATE YOU!" from the one(s) she loves, is responsible for, and is trying to raise to the best of her knowledge and experience. [It is only after the child(ren) are grown (and sometimes manyyears later) that they realize their mother's full worth.]

Only after what may need to be years of this type of ACTION on the mother's part will she be able to have confidence in her child(ren) to do what needs to be done properly and realize that they have been trained to her satisfaction.

Children MUST constantly be watched over, trained in every manner of good judgment, self discipline, manners and obedience no matter what the reason. Mothers as adults KNOW BETTER (or "should") than their children and MUST instill that into them until they are able to conduct their lives in a responsible, moral and lawful way. Once that child reaches the "age of maturity," s(he) MUST already have the ability to actually BE an adult.

By the time the child(ren) have become preteens and teenagers, it is absolutely too late to take control, most of their ways of thinking and acting have already been set for the rest of their lives. As it is said in The Bible, "6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. (Old Testament | Proverbs 22:6)"

If these things are not taught and taught properly, the child will embark on a life of sorrow, unpredictability, ignorance, and anger...easily swayed by the opinions of others, never knowing truth from lies, right from wrong, or love from hate. All will be a matter of whim with NO foundation upon which to live out their lives in happiness, comfort, trust, respectability, surety, and a sense of self worth.

Answer 7

It's her job: get over it.