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Narcissists accept no blame FOR ANYTHING. And they thrive on getting you to feel pity. Its the way they truly get control over you. Lastly, if its your fault, they can still come back later and beg you for another chance. DON'T DO IT!

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Q: Why does a narcissist try to get you to feel sorry for them when you split up?
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