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The problem with a man leaving is that it's considered abandonment, especially if there's children. But, if he tries to take the children, where does he go. Whether, the mother could claim he plans to harm the children. At this point, he would get arrested, the children will be returned to her, and by the time he's got it sorted out, she has a restraining order on him.

Leaving the children behind can be dangerous for the children, as abusive mothers account for 55% of fatal child abuse committed by anyone. Fathers account for 8%, even when adjusted for custody arrangements. Stepmothers account for 9%, and stepfathers for 10%.

The above advisory has merit, but you didn't ask about danger to children or your position as a parent. There can be so many reasons that a wife would be abusive to her husband that there is no way to speculate why your wife, in particular, would be abusing you.

If you have attempted to discuss this with her and failed, offered to go with her for professional guidance and she refused, sought any other reasonable means of getting to the bottom of her problem and failed, then only you are in a position to decide if you should leave or not. If you have decided to do so, then that may be all you can do. None of us can know what is the cause of your wife's behavior, but you could consider seeking professional help for yourself to help you sort out your situation.

If there are children involved in this situation, you should also consult a lawyer. Just be sure that any motives for what you may do are for the benefit of the children and not a form of retaliation against their mother.

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