background: married man and mistress were in a long term affair that was disclosed to wife. married man and wife separated but married man and mistress remained in contact the entire time. married vehemently denied to mistress that he wanted to reconcile with wife until the wife agreed to reconcile.
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First thing first love, as you already knew that this man is married from the start. You believed to everything he told you. You could have said no to him, but you didn't. Did you think married men who are having an affair behind their wives back will tell the truth, they will not. Most married men who cheated will never leave their family, because for years they built something together, and for them to loose and start all over again will not be their option. So if they can keep their life before they have this hunger for another woman, they rather stay with the wives and have a mistress on the side.
Reality check here, he didn't have to tell you that he wanted to work on his marriage. He didn't even owe you no explanation what he is doing. Being a mistress has some perks, we only a part time lover when they need us. The rest is for his wife..
He probably doesn't care that he got caught.
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First of all, your husband didn't have the rights to talk to his mistress after his affair is been discovered. The purpose of getting caught cheating is for the man to stop if he wanted his life and family back .But if he was concern about his mistress by telling her that he can't talk to her because he needs to settle the problem at home is not a devoted man that will make amends to what he did to you.
I was in your shoes before, but the man that I married called his mistress the day I discovered his love affair and apologizing for hurting her and putting her in the middle of our marriage. This are facts when our spouse had an affair.
because he stupid honey. i would divorce him right now. you don't deserve to be in pain for something stupid like that. Be blessed.
Because the guy loves his wife enough to break it off with you.
mos def
depends how hot she isANSWER;I think so especially if this married man fell in love with his mistress before he got caught cheating. Lots will be going on in his head, mostly the fun he had with her..
When a married man gets caught cheating by his wife and then moves in with his mistress nine chances out of ten he is immature; selfish and if he loved the mistress he would have had the fortitude to leave his wife before he got caught. A man who lives with his mistress after being caught cheating by his wife is afraid to be alone and it doesn't necessarily mean that he loves his mistress.ANSWER:It means that he loves his mistress, and probably he don't want to loose what they have together. But I think its good that he left you and live with her, you will have more freedom, you wouldn't have to remember the pain he gave you. And you wouldn't have to face him to remind you of what he did..
No, keep cheating and dont get caught.
they would probally feel so guilty that they give up their job.
In my opinion and experience, yes he will most likely have ongoing contact with her, especially if they work together.
Married men who cheat on their wives and have a mistress generally use the mistress for a sexual relationship; feeling the freedom he is not married to her and can either go back to his wife when he is bored with the mistress or, if he is caught cheating by his wife or he decides to divorce his wife then he would want him freedom and the statistics of a married man divorcing and marrying his mistress is very low; generally he just wants to do as he pleases and doesn't care if he hurts women along the way.
Because he's stuped. And because he wants to be with the ex-mistress.
It can be tough, but if he is willing to change and won't look back again. Then he can save his marriage, but he will need to make a lot of improvement to bring the trust back also.
it's probably because he a, was already married, and b, someone's on his tail and he doesn't want them to find out
it's like a back up plan. if he gets divorce he will goto his ex mistress. It not a 100 percent right there is a chance.
* Why go after the mistress! It should be your mate that you go after as they instigated the affair. You have a choice of splitting up if you are just going together or, if married you can sit down and discuss the problems in your marriage and try to work on a more successful marriage; separate from your spouse or divorce him.