Why you love him and he still loves the ex?

Answer 1

I love someone who does like me and is close to me, wants me because he knows I will be better for him and his future...but he cant get over the ex girlfriend.. he has feelings for her and does not know why.. i asked him why do you still love her after she dumped you and went back to her ex husband. she is playing him. he was like in only a 6 or 8 month relationship with her.. her kids did not except him,they want their mom and dad back to gether. now her back is messed up, needs a operation, she will be putting her so called moving out to be away from her ex husband ans now the exuse is that she has a back problem coming up...my man seems to may want to wait for her to see if she wants to get him back..i say she does not. i found at his place letters he wrote never mailed to her about how he loved her and who did she want him or her ex...he spends time with me, he and i have a sexual relationship..it is not just good sex. it is romantic and he says i am the only woman who has gave him the ultimate pleasure. he brags to me of how beautiful i am. he text me when i avoid him...now he says we need space to find him self to see who or what he wants to do..i sit back waiting..but what do i do ..do i just forget him..he is a good man of whom i have waited on all my life. i went to school with him.. he told me he would of married me if he never met her if i was in the picture.. that was last year...i was late.... omg i have these feelings so much for the first time in my life for him...his kiss swept me off my feet.. i dont even want to date others or talk to them.. i am in love...and now i am scared because i want to know is he going to come to me or wait for her..may be months down the road if he waits..but absents from me may make him grow stronger me...