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Narcissists seek revenge for everything.

* you telling the truth about them * exposing them * questioning them * getting rid of them * arrests * restraining orders * blocking their emails

Do some searches on "Narcissistic Rage" They seek revenge for anything that goes against their twisted versions of reality.

Yes, I've read a lot about narcissists after having the misfortune of knowing one. She was only a friend, thank god, and so the best way to deal with her was simply to cut ties and ignore her without any confrontation. She gave up pretty quickly once she realized I would not give her any attention, and she soon moved onto her next victim. Some of my friends had told me I should have confronted her for the awful things she did (e.g., trying to hook up with my boyfriend behind my back), but it was my instinct to simply cut ties and ignore her, and now I'm glad I took that route because I read recently that narcissists will try to destroy you if you confront them, call them out, or punish them directly. It's like you are challenging their make-believe world where they are king and they therefore must destroy you in order to keep their self-absorbed fantasy intact. So I would assume that your ex will be seeking revenge for the arrest; you should do everything possible to protect yourself and any children involved (restraining order, seek full custody, etc.). And if possible do not initiate contact with them under any circumstances, and do not believe them when they play sorry to try to get you back. If you must interact with the narcissist because children are involved, keep it very limited and strictly professional; the more attention they can get from you the more difficult they will make things for you. By withholding attention, you will drain their energy and they will be forced to move on and leave you alone. My heart goes out to you; it was devastating enough on my psyche having a friend who was a narcissist, I can't even imagine how horrifying being in a romantic relationship with one must be.

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