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Yes if you really want your relationship to work and listen to the advice you are given.
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If you gave your spouse another chance after his affair why can't he help you rebuild the relationship?
If he's not helping to work on your marriage , he is just waiting for the storm to blow over and you won't bother him any more. Tell him to get with the program [ marriage counseling ] or you'll go on with out him.
How can you regain your spouse?
It depends on what you did to lose their trust. Try marriage counseling with a certified psychiatrist and work on it there. A marriage without trust is in trouble.
What are the odds of saving your marriage?
If the spouse does not constantly cheat and made one mistake by having an affair then talking it out in a calm manner and facing how you both can improve upon the marriage may save the marriage or, you both could go to marriage counseling to learn tools to deal with every day life's stresses. If the spouse is constantly cheating; may be on drugs or abuses alcohol or is constantly verbally or physically harmful to their spouse it is best to move on. There is a good rate of successful marriages if one spouse has only had one affair if the couple decide to make it work. 'To err is human.'
How can you regain your spouse's trust?
It depends on what you did to lose their trust. Try marriage counseling with a certified psychiatrist and work on it there. A marriage without trust is in trouble.
Is affair a wake up call or a death knell for a marriage?
Often it is a wake up call that something is missing your marriage either by your spouse; yourself or both of you. Marriage takes hard work and some marriages end up with one; both spouses having affairs and if they truly love each other marriage counseling does help and since both of you took your marriage vows you need to realize people are just human and if this is a first affair then the marriage is still worth saving. However, if the spouse continues to have affairs then it is the death of the marriage.
Why does my spouse think that having an affair is normal?
It is important to understand that people have different perspectives and beliefs about relationships. It is possible that your spouse may have been influenced by their upbringing, cultural norms, or personal experiences which have shaped their understanding of what is normal in a relationship. It is important to have open and honest communication with your spouse to understand their perspective and work towards finding common ground and mutual understanding.
How can you make your spouse understand how much his affair has hurt and negatively affected you?
You probably won't. The hurt, pain and anger that you are feeling is hard for your spouse to grasp. It would be best for both of you to get counseling to work so that you both can work through the issues.
I had a cyber affair. Now its over my husband stopped calling me. Why?
Having an affair can be emotionally devastating for one's spouse. So, it is not surprising that a person's spouse would ignore them after they learned of an affair. To make a marriage work following infidelity, both parties need to be willing to work it out, and they should likely attend couple's therapy.
Do you wonder if there is hope for your marriage after your spouse cheated on you?
If the spouse is not a multiple cheater and has only cheated once then 'to err is human' and if the two of you need to sit down and communicate what the other is feeling without yelling and screaming or placing blame on each other. Seeking marriage counseling is a good idea and it is important that the spouse knows that the counselor is not there to place blame on one person, but to give the couple tools to work through their marriage problems. Many marriages have survived one affair, but not multiple affairs.
What are the signs if your spouse really wanted to work on your marriage after getting caught cheating?
There is only one sign and that is if he were to agree to go to marriage counseling and keep each appointment with you. It is important that he realizes a marriage counselor is not there to place blame on either spouse, but to give them tools in order for them to communicate better and resolve any problems they have in their marriage.
Is divorce the only answer if your marriage don't work anymore after spouse affair?
No, divorce is just a way out sometimes. It depends on how much remorse the cheating spouse has, and if both are willing to work towards making it work. If the spouse who didn't cheat hangs it over the others head, then it definitely wont work. If the spouse forgives the other, and looks to a brighter future then nothing is impossible!
Before getting a divorce, couples should attend marriage counseling to work on their problems.?
Before getting a divorce, couples should attend marriage counseling to work on their problems.
