1) KNOW THIS: being drunk is not an excuse for cheating.
++If you want her back, you need to say: "there is no excuse for what i did. not even being drunk. what i did was wrong and i will regret it forever. Baby i love you more than anyone and i never would want to intentionally hurt you. Im so sorry and if u gave me just ONE MORE CHANCE i would NEVER hurt you again. I would make u so happy and not do anything to ruin us."
2) Start talking to he casually over text, facebook..etc. dont get too emotional. just slowly work your way up.
If she really loved you, she would not have cheated on you, plain and simple, drunk or not.
Sure does. She did it and she knew she was doing it, no matter if drunk or not.
no because you can remember some things when drunk and ask him if he remembers and if he said yes he did on purpose or she did some little trick to get him to do it and/or he did not remember certain parts or what happened hes like my father
yes u should because it means that they had a relationship together whilst u were dating him and he told her to sleep with him that night becaue he was gonna brake-up with u so u cant say anything to him because hes not ur boyfrind anymore
Of course its possible.
Dump her. She clearly doesn't want a relationship.
60 months
Did you mean driving - if so it depends how drunk you are and what damage you have caused- it could mean a few months or many years.
You don't deserve him if you cheated in the first place. Sober or drunk - you have full control of your actions and there is no reason to have had any kind of intimate moment with anyone else unless you were r**ed. He deserves better.
Give him a present saying u were sorry and then start being nice to him. Do stuff for him, and say that u were drunk. He might not forgive u but just try it!
Give him another chance but only because of the kids and the impact it could potentially have on them. If he was drunk and if he is truly sorry, he will have learnt from his mistakes and he won't ever do it again.
Gently, go out, get drunk with your mates and have fun. You're free for a couple of months without anyone narking you