Your boyfriends grandaughter said he touched her down there Should you leave him?

Answer 1

see if you can find out any of his history that might help. also, how old is his grandchild?if shes very young she isn't likely to be making it up. i think it is very unlikely she just wants attenton but i wouldn't rule that out.

AnswerBasically, kick him out and tell your Doctor: however, there is a big "BUT". My grandaughter was molested when she was four by our daughter's then-boyfriend, and has had psychological, self-esteem, and behavioral troubles ever since. She was too young and immature to have made it up, and she had the tell-tale dreams of "a red snake". However, if she was older and more mature, say fourteen , she may have made a false accusation because she wanted to make trouble for him or pay him back for something. Only you can tell how worldly-wise she is and how truthful she is, but don't disbelieve her just because "she's only a child/ wouldn't know/do ...." because otherwise you will be giving a sex pervert more victims.

In summary,

if she is young and immature, or if you believe her: definitely kick him out/ leave him and definitely tell your family, Doctor, Police, and relevant authority (including schools if applicable);

if she's older, or you don't know whether to believe her or not: that is your call, but probably leave him. Check out his previous history if you can