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Your husband wants to stay married but also have a relationship with his mistress of 5 years that he will not give up?
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∙ 16y ago
Answer There are always two sides to every story. Maybe you don't do it for him in the bedroom or whatever, but for him to refuse to give up a mistress would make me want to call a lawyer about a divorce. Why should you take this kind of treatment from any man. It's time to move on and dump this guy.
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Does a mistress end up marrying the married man she is seeing?
Married men who cheat on their wives and have a mistress generally use the mistress for a sexual relationship; feeling the freedom he is not married to her and can either go back to his wife when he is bored with the mistress or, if he is caught cheating by his wife or he decides to divorce his wife then he would want him freedom and the statistics of a married man divorcing and marrying his mistress is very low; generally he just wants to do as he pleases and doesn't care if he hurts women along the way.
Why does a man tell mistress he has no freedom?
He wants to stay married to his wife and is using the mistress for extramarital sex purposes.
If a spouse told his mistress that he wants to keep his family but wants to be with her also do you have the rights to ask him for divorce?
When a husband wants to keep his family and still have his mistress, then yes, the wife has every right to file for divorce.
Can you feel like you are the mistress of your spouse while he was cheating on you?
Yes, the wife can feel like a mistress when her husband is having an affair because he may well either love his wife; love both women or, he wants to continue with a sexual relationship with his wife and the adventure of having a sexual relationship that is exciting with his mistress. A wife that puts up with her husband's cheating is an enabler and if she allows it to go on then she is not only stripping herself of her dignity and self worth, but she her husband will not respect her for putting up with it. 'You' are in control of this situation and sit down with your husband and tell him you are not putting up with his cheating and he either goes to marriage counseling with you; drops the mistress or you are divorcing him. This should get his attention!
Why would a married man get 2 emails from his ex mistress to give him a heads up on something and she know he read the emails but he never responded back then when he sees her says nothing about them?
The ex mistress should get the hint that this married man regrets having the affair; wants to stay with is wife and the relationship he had with his mistress is over and that is the reason he is not answering the emails or mentioning them when he sees her. The percentage is high for mistresses losing out when dating a married man.
Y would a cheating husband tell his mistress he wants 2 work things out with his wife but it's still early n he has a lot of making up 2 do n still has alot to think about but not talk 2 her as much?
This married man do not know what he wanted to do, either he wants to keep his family together, and break up with his mistress. Or he wants to work his marriage and see if he can keep the mistress on the side. Either way, he is playing fire on both side. Some married man will know what they want if he get caught cheating, and there are some that will keep both wife and his mistress and take my words for it, he is taking you for a ride.
Is favorite the polite word for mistress?
No, a mistress is a mistress and generally loses out with the man she is involved with. There are no favorites; just empty promises with the man a mistress is involved with. Mistresses are not well thought of by other women in most cases (some married woman may not even know her husband has a girlfriend) and there is always a code 'don't touch someone's husband or boyfriend!' That being said the mistress cheapens herself and kids herself into thinking she is something special that this married man sees in her. It's about sex and a man that wants more than one woman or perhaps trying to recapture his youth. He is selfish and is using his wife and his mistress. If one wants respect they have to give respect and being the mistress of a married man is not the way to go. It would be wise for you to rethink your position. Statistics prove that a married man will choose his wife over his mistress, or, if he does leave her the percentage is extremely low that he will remain with his mistress and marry her because he wants his freedom or, he may even beg his wife to take him back.New answer: 'Favourite' is not a word used much these days in a sexual context. Historically, in Britain, some kings were said to have 'favourites' but they were men, i.e. the king was gay.
Is it unfair to the wife if her husband takes his mistress to places where she wants to go?
I would consider the fact that he has a Mistress is "unfair to the Wife" in general, anything else on top of that is just
What kind of case shall be file if your husband have a mistress?
A Divorce. He can then pay you alimony and see how much the mistress wants him then. Be strong. If you have some education and decnt health, you can take care of your self.
How do you keep your husband far away from the mistress his family is married to hers?
I'm not quite sure if you mean the family 'is married to her' because they like her a lot, or that she has married someone else in the family. However, it doesn't much matter because you are going to have to face family gatherings from time to time. It's a tough one because your husband cheated once and some say 'once a cheater always a cheater', but I don't believe that. If you and your husband have gotten over the hurdle of his affair with this mistress and all is well you are going to have to simply trust him at some point. If he is family orientated (tight with his family) and you refuse to go to family gatherings this will put a large wedge into your relationship. I say give him some rein and see what he does with it. If he's going to flirt or look like he still wants to see his mistress this is the time you kick his butt out the door.
What if your husband said a lot of good things about his mistress to you?
Either he is in love with her or he just wants to hurt you. ANSWER: Your husband is in love with his lover, and everything she does to him is all about making him happy. His mistress has this quality that you never had. This are what will happen especially if he loves her. From my own personal experience, my husband did the same when I asked him what did his woman have that I don't have, and that's when he told me what he saw in her. The quality of this other woman was the one that the man I married didn't have no problem being open to her. But as usual the truth hurt and I'm grateful the man that I married didn't lie to me about his feelings towards his mistress. I knew for a fact that when our spouse have this feelings towards their mistress, the marriage can not be save anymore. When a spouse begun to have this kind of attraction towards his mistress, you can bet that his love is a bit more different. The man I married feelings for his mistress was spiritually, like being soulmate, so the day he told me his feelings for her, I knew that our marriage will be impossible to work on because, his love for me will never be the same anymore. Sad but God knows its true.
Why does a man want a mistress?
When some men are married for a year or so and realize that it is much different than just dating and both couples need to face reality such as both working towards the future or, after several years of marriage the married man feels restless as if he wants to reach back into his youth and needs to know other women are attracted to him he will find a mistress. The wife has had to put up with him for a year or several years and sometimes boredom can set in for the husband, but meeting someone new is exciting and the sexual relationship is as well, but if the married man keeps seeing the mistress for a fair length of time he will soon realize that 'the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence) and he is once again bored. Some married men will find another mistress or, they may return home to their wives and settle down. Basically, these types of married men become slightly obsessed with their mistress because their relationship is new and exciting and he has no commitments. This is a high sign of immaturity on the married man's part.
