Where can you find a quiz to see if your husband was having an emotional affair with your best friend?

Answer 1

There is no quiz that is going to give you an answer to this one. I do know what you are talking about because I see my girlfriend of 30 years making a total fool out of herself with a so-called very good looking friend of hers and has a tit for tat game playing relationship with this man and does this right in front of her husband. Everyone knows that she is playing with fire and an emotion affair is called 'flirting!' Beware! I have two male friends (their wives are my good friends too) and we have witty sayings back and forth, but there is certainly no sexual attraction and no affair in sight. YOU are in control of your relationship and it's time you started to take control and start communicating your feelings to your husband. Let him know you don't care for the behavior between them no matter how innocent it is. Ask him how he would like this scenario reversed. Then you start communicating with your girlfriend and be crafty about it. Say something casual like, 'Men! Boy they can sure get under your skin. I was talking to a friend the other day and she's having problems with her husband bantering back and forth with a female friend of theirs and she thinks somethings up. I wonder if it's true?' She'll get the message loud and clear if there is anything going on. All you can do is communicate your feelings to both your husband and your best friend and there may not be anything to this problem you feel you have. Many women who know their friends husband will banter back and forth, hug or give a peck on the cheek, but there is nothing going on other than what you see with your own eyes. If your husband is flirtatious then you need to get some control over him and tell him straight up that he'll hit the bricks if he continues with his behavior. It's fine to banter with the opposite sex, but it depends on the subject line and also no long kissing, too much touching (other than a hug when greeting them or when the person is leaving). If he isn't flirtatious and is shy he may well not know how to handle this girlfriend of yours. Sometimes men try their best by being nice simply because they don't know what else to do. Enter the wife! I've had to do this with my own husband (shy and awkward with other women.) He complained to me it makes him nervous when a woman is too up close and personal with him and he truly is all thumbs. Once a yacht builders wife was actually throwing herself at my husband and chasing him around the yacht and as he went by for the third time he mouthed quietly, "Help." Finally I did interfere discreetly and told my husband I had something to discuss with him and to come sit next to him. That ended that! Why play games, just ask them together and see how they react. IF you feel that something was/is going on, you have the right to know. It takes two to tango and if this is going on they both stepped way over the boundaries and respect that they should have for you and themselves. People hiding an affair don't generally do so in the open and especially in front of the girlfriend or wife. That's why it's called cheating!