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Abuse as a child now with abusive boyfriend what control does the abusive boyfiend have over my granddaughter that she keeps going back too him?
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∙ 15y ago
maybe she has low self esteem, maybe she's pregnant and doesn't wanna fight for custody of the child, maybe she thinks she deserved it
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What if your lover boyfriend or husband doesn't allow birth control?
A man like this is an abusive, control freak and you should get rid of him!
Why would emotionally abusive boyfriend suddenly end the relationship when before he always got upset afterwards and wanted me back?
to control you. abusers want total control
Why did boyfriend only start being emotionally abusive suddenly after months of happiness?
This is the way they work, they start off being nice to work there way into your heart then when they have you the way they want you they slowly work through being abusive to control you
Why do your abusive boyfriend blame your roommate he think this woman is going to break us apart?
Your abusive boyfriend is a control freak. He wants you all to himself. Blaming your roommate is his way of both projecting the blame for his abuse (and thus denying it) and of causing you to take sides and thus prying you away from her support. Your roommate is probably right, by the way.
Will an abusive ex still try to control you even after you left?
if he is that abusive chances are he will but then only if you tolerate him.
Why would an abusive ex-boyfriend be mad that you decorated your place and then tell you it doesn't look so bad when you had bragged how wonderful it looked beforehand?
It's about control. He wants you to seek approval from him for everything.
What should you expect to happen if your boyfriend broke up with you a month ago but you cut ties with him over the phone?
It sounds to me like you didn't move on when your boyfriend broke-off with you and he was in and out of your life until you completely cut the ties. It depends entirely on his personality. If he was abusive in any way he may give you a rough time, but, if he never was abusive he may move on and you certainly should. YOU are in total control of your own life, not him!
How soon does an abusive boyfriend abuse and try to gain control?
First he'll start out nice to the point where you like him so much you wont want to break up with him. Then he'll start being abusive mental first little by little. Then he'll start to actually hit and push you. But he'll do all of this gradually.
What can be done about your out-of-control teen granddaughter?
Tell her that she wouldn't be here without you (grandma). Think if somebody did that to you.
What do you do if your spouse is a control and abusive husband?
You get a divorce and leave the house, before it is to late !
If your boyfriend says you are his child and so his decisions will always supersede yours for your own good is this abusive?
Abusive and controlling. He needs to get some help. That is not a healthy relationship. One person should never be the parent. Both partners are equals. If you don't think he'll get help, or if you ask and he refuses, you need to leave him. It's not healthy to live that way. It will probably just get worse and could turn into physical abuse. By transforming you into "his child", your boyfriend is avoiding adult, mature intimacy - while maintaining absolute control over you. Both are abusive behaviors. Yes. He's being controlling and establishing power over you.
Why won't your abusive ex-boyfriend allow the conversation of closure too occur?
Two possibilities: 1. He doesn't feel that anything needs closure. Maybe he's willing to just walk away. 2. Denial. If he believes that he can still control you by refusing to do as you wish, he may think that he can keep the relationship going. Maybe he's just thinking that he can keep you from going or maybe that you don't really want to. Remember that abuse is about control. He wants to control you at least as much as be your boyfriend.
