This married man is being polite towards you, nothing else. He probably was wondering how your doing since the affair was discovered. He probably didn't want to feel bad for ruining your life as well. Nothing else. What you need is move on and try not to contact him anymore. It's time for you to get your life in order.
Clearly "being caught" was not the end of the relationship in his eyes. He's going to keep seeing the mistress.
depends how hot she isANSWER;I think so especially if this married man fell in love with his mistress before he got caught cheating. Lots will be going on in his head, mostly the fun he had with her..
Yes, in that married man just feel about his mistress. I guess that feeling his mistress' simply reality
* Why go after the mistress! It should be your mate that you go after as they instigated the affair. You have a choice of splitting up if you are just going together or, if married you can sit down and discuss the problems in your marriage and try to work on a more successful marriage; separate from your spouse or divorce him.
It means things at home will never go well. He loves the woman you're calling the mistress.
This can work out, but there are no guarantees. ANSWER: From the survey I have read, when a husband or wife had affairs and one of them leaves, married woman who left the husband to be with her lover do works, and last longer. Because married woman knows what to do in relationship so the lover will be happy and satisfy. But with a married man that leaves the wife to be with his mistress, it will work for a bit but things will change because his finding that his mistress has " pros and cons" he never knew before, even if she is a good church going person or not. And with his finding, he will realize about his wife towards him, that he ignored and taken for granted. And there are also married men that will leave their mistress because they found another new mistress that can excite them..
b/c its his ex mistress, he's done w/ that pu tang ANSWER: Quite simple, even if he is trying to rebuild what mistakes he done, he still want what he have with his ex mistress. He didn't know that betraying his wife will be hard if he get caught, so now his paying for it.
ANSWER: Are you joking, did you think because you had told his wife what he was doing, that will be the end of it. Mistress hardly go and see the wife, of the man she was having the affair, her intent is if the wife learn about her husband, it will automatically going to kick him out of their house. And this is mistress dream. When a woman becomes the mistress it will be for her benefit as well as the married man, why? the only way a mistress can let go her married lover is when she have a soul.
Honestly, all it probably means is that he still is physically attracted to his mistress(which doesn't last, if it isn't more). Maybe things aren't going well at home (go figure... he got caught cheating!) But, it definitely isn't true love. Everyone deserves true love! If it were true love, he (a)would have left his wife when he realized that SHE was not his true love, and/or (b)wouldn't be LOOKING at his mistress, but TALKING to her!
Or maybe it is to make his wife think nothing is going on - or he has replaced the mistress with a new one.
When a woman has an affair with a married man and becomes his mistress she will be the loser. Some men cannot remain faithful to their spouse and will cheat behind their back hoping to not get caught, but generally do get caught. Some men want to recapture their youth and are thrilled a younger woman is interested in them. If a mistress thinks the married man who is now divorced is going to come running to them they are sadly mistaken. Some men will try to get back with their wife while others will enjoy their freedom and they certainly don't want to commit to another relationship right away. The mistress may still be in the life of this man, but for sexual purposes only.
It's possible that he still thinks about it when he goes home, but his comment suggests that seeing his ex mistress may trigger specific memories or thoughts related to their past actions. It's important to consider the context and communication style between the individuals involved to fully understand the meaning behind his statement.