Are women who accuse you of cheating more likely to cheat on you?

Answer 1

Not necessarily. Accusations and suspicions of cheating come from a place of insecurity that may or may not have a bearing a person's ability to be faithful. Those are two different issues.

Are women who accuse you of cheating more likely to cheat on you?....No. Men tend to think because a woman repeatedly accuses them or happens to ask, that maybe they could cheat on them, low self esteem, craziness..etc. To be frank about it, if she thinks you are, she could cheat on you, but only if she thinks it or has proof...and deny, deny, deny just doesn't work...it only makes it worse. If you're cheating, state it. Don't let it linger or get worse...if you have found someone else, be a man (or a woman) and state it.

I have been cheated on repeatedly and honestly, I am sick of it. I have only accused because 'clues'..etc are so 'put out there'. Women do not accuse because we feel 'less than', like most men think. We accuse because it's happening. We don't waste our time chasing after a man, like men do chasing after us. Being a woman is different than being a man, and I am not speaking of gender--if we didn't need them to reproduce, we would be just fine, honestly. No Wars...or accusing of who did what, but of course, Men rule the world and in that...."you can't do what I do" is a likely saying from men. I throw my hands up and thank God I can't do what you can do....I treat my body, my spouse AND life with respect...You men should do the same....Do what us women do...and grow up.

Granted I have heard that there are a few men out there, that are actually men. They don't cheat, abuse..etc. but they are like finding a diamond in the ocean...very hard and very rare. If there are any out there, I have yet to meet them... if men would only think about it...women are more respectful to their body (and love life)...why cheat when we have all we need?...after all, all men want it.

Interesting. In all the other Questions related to cheating on this site, the women who post constantly state that "if a man accuses you of cheating, then HE probably is." Well, guess what? That applies to women as well. If you're going around accusing me of cheating and getting all suspicious of me, what do YOU have to hide? It takes one to know one. Men should be more suspicious of their wives and girlfriends. Go through HER stuff. Check out HER email, guys. Rummage around in her purse. Look at HER cell phone numbers. When a guy cheats, that means somebody else's WOMAN is cheating with him. Maybe that woman is YOURS!

My wife was always so very jealous she would drive crazy, about where I was. She always called me if I was five minutes late. She made me promise that if I ever found someone new that I would not do it behind her back. Guess she would know how much it hurt. Well I suppose that you've guessed already, at what she did? Than told me that she never meant to hurt me, after three years, why would she ever think it could me? Well that was 20 years ago and she never cheated again, she loved me dearly, until she passed away. I do love her but she'll never know how much of my love she lost, nor will I.

The game of what is known as validation has been and will always most likely be around. I am 34 yrs old, one thing i have learned a very important rule of thumb is this, (everyone is different and has different methods of operating), people do things for all sorts of f__ked up reasoning, what is meant by validation is people try for something they don't really need or sometimes even want only to have a story to tell someone else, the spot light of he/she actually did it attention, some people desperately crave to be admired, i have been married twice, the first time definitely a learning experience, the second i have loved since the first day we looked each other in the eyes with a burning passion, now don't misunderstand me, she is like the man above stated accuses me of cheating on a daily basis, sometimes the fight goes on for several hours, and i have not even wanted to, i enjoy my sex life with my wife, too me she is drop dead sexy, i am married to her and i have fantasies about her she is so hot to me, but with sex were not completely on the same page so some fantasies will ramain a dream, the thing i do with my wife in general too make sure if she ever cheated on me it was because she wanted to not because she needed to, men here is the problem and very few of us understand it, i am what is known as a (past master) of every interest, that is why i know what i am about to tell you, woman need company, they need to be heard, they need to be loved, they definitely need to climax, the need security, the problem with their needs is their like a cat, love and hate you in the same minute, want a divorce and sex in the same hour, most of these issues with woman are just frustration coming from whatever wherever, when woman want things it isn't the same as with men, they don't just blurt it out and say it, they communicate for whatever reason subtle, why a hint is better than asking/ telling beats me.

Woman usually do things such as cheating out of neccessity, they have somethig missing and in their life and even they don't know what and the cheating thing is an attempt at filling the space of what is needed, woman don't know what they want sometimes, and sometimes want our help figuring it out, yes this is true, stated in a book written by a psychological Doctor Who is a woman, so ladies don't try to deny this, you WILL not convince me other wise, i have met too many of you and observed enough for a lifetime.

Most of the time being accused of cheating is done to observe the answer as a whole, how long it took to answer, the expression on your face, the tone in your voice, and any other things that can be read, the real point of it sometimes is to guarantee her she wont be left heart broken, she is looking for a promise that her man is hers no matter what goddess he will see today or tomorrow, or who will try to seduce him, as long as the answer come back in a believable or usual form you are good for today anyway, but she will be back in a different form tomorrow, grant you.

Cheating is done by men with either an ego or a huge build up of fluid that needs released, as for the ones with an ego he slept with her because she made him feel like a sex master or a king for a whole 60 seconds and he could not resist the validation, as for fluid build up with those who wont masturbate cheating is pretty much the only way to release the pressure, sex is used against men because their build up is different that a womans, once he is turned on it stays, she will eventually cool off and forget it, he still has fluid build up and no where to go, guys a word to you from experience, masterbating is actually something you might consider ok, it not only takes the sensitivity out of your game and helps you to go longer when inside of her helping her to build up and eventually climax, but it take away the pressure of you needed sex so you can actually think about what your saying and doing instead of saying what she wants to hear so she will give in, making promises or saying things just to get sex after words isn't good, a promise is a promise, sex goes way, promises don't, it also takes out the need to cheat cause the pressure isn't there at all, just be careful if your girl does turn you on just by looking at her you will never be in the mood and she will definitely wonder then.

Men if your woman has been cheated on any in the past and severely hurt by it, she will most likely never overcome it, once a woman is scorned it is for LIFE, if she doesnt get past it someway somehow and she will take her hatred to the grave, and nothing you say or do will change this in her, i have some understanding of a woman so i know about how they feel in some ways, and i know others are just silly for what they do and why, but woman are woman, once she has had children or the sex slows down you will reallize what kind of woman you have, if she turns into a witch after children, all she wanted was pregnant most likely, if the sex slows down and she does not literally try to rape you she didn't enjoy when it was there.

One correction to all men, woman need us a lot more than we need them ok, remove the sex and they have nothing we can use, unless you enjoyed the cuddle time, do not allow them to fool you, if you allow them to be boss over you and she changes or seems more energetic and very ambitious she is on her way to controlling your every move/ word/ thought and anything else available, if they tell you they don't need you ask why she is there, if the reason for her being there is something she can easily do for herself (she most likely would), and it isn't true.

Woman my heart goes out to those who have been cheated on, I feel for you, if you ever cheated then you deserve what you get, if not I truly feel for you.

Men, if a woman has anything on her mind at all, you will need to ease it for her to relax and become in the mood for sex, she cant climax and worry at the same time, so if it cant be relieved for a while get what your there for and try talking after words, maybe another round is order if you can help ease her mind, she will want to thank you for your help.