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Are you in an abusive relationship if your boyfriend has cheated and he was in utter shock when you did and how do you get him to change?
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∙ 19y ago
No, you aren't in an abusive relationship, but both of you are very immature. Just because one partner cheats doesn't give the other partner the right to do the same thing. If we aren't true to ourselves (we are our own best friend) then the relationships or anything else you endeavor in life is a waste of time. It's time for both of you to move on in different directions. Marcy
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Would you tell an ex boyfriend that was emotionally abusive that you knew he cheated when you were together?
I guess the real question is why are you still talking to an ex boyfriend who was emotionally abusive? You can tell him anything you want, but it won't change him. The best thing to do is to figure out why you were attracted to someone who abused you and cheated on you. A therapist or counselor can probably help you sort it out. Do it NOW...before you marry someone like him and have his children....then you will just continue the cycle.
Should you finish your boyfriend if they sort of cheated on you?
yes , but if i love him i will change his mind
How do you get your boyfriend to change his Facebook status to in a relationship?
Log in and do it yourself!! lol
If you are a bully as a kid are you going to be abusive in a relationship?
Everyone can change, and maybe you'll find someone that brings out the best in you :)
What happens to men who return to abusive relationship?
If they were the abusers and did not get help for their actions, than the pattern will continue. If they did get help, things will change.
How do you get help when you are in a very bad abusive relationship?
When you are in a very bad abusive relationship, you should use caution while building your plan to get to a safe place. Seek local resources that might be useful, including advocates that can help in putting together a safety plan and in utilizing whatever legal resources might be useful or necessary in your plan. Build your plan erring on the side of paranoia -- leaving an abusive relationship is the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship. When you have a plan, follow it, even when you're scared. It is very unlikely that anything in your relationship will change until you are in a safe place.
Why do abusive relationships exist?
It exist because the person being hurt stays in the relationship thinking the abuser will stop. Face reality this person has issues and they will not just up and change. I would advise anyone who is in an abusive relationship whether physical,emotional or verbal get out while you still can, because the abuser is not going to change magically.
Should you break up with your boyfriend if he makes you feel guilty all the time?
Yes, you should leave the relationship. That is because he is somehow making you change your view of what you do with good intentions to be something wrong. Eventually, you won't be able to do anything right, and you will not feel good about yourself. He cannot be right all the time! Actually, this is verbally abusive behavior and you are caught in a vicious cycle. Read Patricia Evan's book, "The Verbally Abusive Relationship" for further insight.
Why is my long distance relationship boyfriend ignoring me?
Maybe he is frustrated with having to deal with a long distance relationship. Visit him. That will change his mind.
What do you do if your boyfriend has girls as friends they invite him to go places but not you?
Your boyfriend is probably not ready for an exclusive relationship. If you don't think that he will change his mind, you may need to find another boyfriend.
If your boyfriend is mentally and physically abusive and blames it on his anger problems and his family situation should you have hope he'll change with his counseling?
well does your boyfriend abuse you? jw.. but you kinda should hope he would change in counseling. and of this doesnt help you need a close friend to talk to you about this:)
What if he cheated with a man?
Unfortunately, doesn't change the fact he still cheated and you deserve better.
