Are you in love if you feel as if your heart is breaking and you feel that you could not live without this person?

Answer 1

Quite possible. It also depends on how long you have known this person and how long he/she has been a part of your life. I don't understand how you don't know if it is love or not when you claim that you can't live without them. Only your heart can tell you if it feels like it's love or not. It's love if you can die for them or die with them because you can't live without them and possibly fantasize about others because of lust, after you heart has been broken, but it's not love if you don't know if it's love or not, maybe due to because it's your first time in falling for someone. So really, it's up to you to decide on how you really feel about them and how much feelings you have for them. But anyways, I think maybe you should give up on relationships for now because it seems as if you're not ready for love just yet, since you don't know how love and lust feels like, and you might as well forget about relationships until you think that and feel like you're possibly in love.