First, build your friend up by pointing out the positive things he/she has to offer. Make sure he/she understands that the breakup should not be taken personally, and is not a result of anything they did or didn't do; but more of a conflict of interest that wasn't meant to be. Next, reassure the friend that break-ups are often a blessing in disguise and should be viewed as an opportunity to get to know one's self again and determine the things he/she truly wants in a partner. Try to turn every negative into a positive. Break-ups are never easy and each one seems like the worstbecause we are over the last already; but once your friend can get past the hurt and focus on themself again, he/she will begin to see that perhaps the relationship wasn't as glamorous as it seemed. Remind him/her that there is someone out there who will think your friend is perfect in every way and appreciate all that he/she has to offer.
Take it slowly and don't rush. Comfort her, make her feel better. It works!
The worst things to say to someone who has been dumped are as follows: "It was for the best, There are other fish in the sea, You'll meet someone else soon." Or how about, "you know? I have a friend (or brother) that you may be interested in".
you can talk to he and see if he still has feelings for you... and if he does not then just be his friend... its better to be his friend and have he in your life then not have him at all.... or if he does not like you and it hurts to bad to not have him as your man then you can't be his friend at all... and just try to get over him... and find someone else... every one has someone out there for them...
Talk to your friend about this first and then if you really like him then give it a try. Find out what ruined their relationship, don't get with someone just over lust.
You ask him out.
Savour the moment of comfort and warmth
...technically, well, yes. it matters on your friend's feelings, unless they're just someone youre using just to get that guy. but still, feelings always matter. if she tells you, and you know that she is lying, that she couldn't care less, then go ahead, but be wary that her feelings still haven't changed. also, you would want to know why exactly she dumped him, as you say. it may be something you would want to know.
right away
Tell them how you feel in person and then don't lead them on afterwards. Just move on.
sure! why not, just don't get the wrong ideas- they are probabyl just inviting you to either show there are no hard feelings (if u dumped them) or that they still like you, just as a friend (if they dumped you!) so just go for it and return the gesture. Matt
Just move on because life goes on.
a mutual friend is someone who is friends with someone on your contact list.